In what world is a true man considered a thug? The feminization of men is too real these days and I'm not here for it. I'm a suburban woman who graduated uni at 20, owned my first corporation at 21 and am on track to buy my first home at 22. I do not deal with thugs, only real men who know what they want and are assertive.
Brehettes: How do you feel about guys moving slow?
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In what world is a true man considered a thug? The feminization of men is too real these days and I'm not here for it. I'm a suburban woman who graduated uni at 20, owned my first corporation at 21 and am on track to buy my first home at 22. I do not deal with thugs, only real men who know what they want and are assertive.
This bytch went out not wearing panties and this nikka was given this bytch a kiss on the forehead and not even trying to invite himself in after the date
I know that feel #ScaredBrosI was trying not to rush into things.
What about showing effection like long hugs, hand holding, kissing, but no power moves?If he is taking it slow, isn't he trying to develop the romanticism?Should he say that he is exclusive to you, in order for both of you to dating only each other?you danced with other peopleI've been chilling with a really nice dude. He started out just being friendly, until I figured he didn't want anything more so I loosened up and started dancing with other people when we went out. Now, he opens doors for me and he carried me to the car when my feet were hurting. He's been second guessing himself tho when it comes to taking it to the next step because he has a bad track record with females, meanwhile I'm ready to sit on his face
He's a sweetheart.
and he was cool with you being humped on
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
Yea.. He definitely acted different after. He kept saying "Everyone wanted a piece of Cinna tonight" and "I see you finally socializing now". But then that same night he immediately stepped it up, and said "If you keep looking at me like that, I'm gonna kiss you", and he carried me to the car since my legs hurt from being on my feet all day.you danced with other people
and he was cool with you being humped on
Still aint get no kiss tho
Thats a hard line to balance.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
wheels
Rookie
u just need to hone your hunting instincts. All men have these but some are more in tune with them than others. When you are in tune with your instincts then you notice the subtle hints a woman sends you. On that date she sent you some subtle hints but you didn't pick them up or act on them. Learn that just because she is DTF on that first date doesn't make her less of a woman. Sometimes it's nice to have a woman that is confident enough in what she wants to go for it and wants a man assertive enough to go for his. Take your time on a date and pay close enough attention to the woman and be flexible enough to adjust to her and go with the flow. Just because you a hunter doesn't mean you have to hunt everything but a good hunter knows how to recognize a good partner that he can settle with. No loss in this situation just learn for the next time lil homie. You will be aight when you learn to listen to your own instincts and have the confidence to act on them and not care about the consequences.I was feeling this chick, but she told me she just wanted to be friends. I realize I was moving way too slow with her. I was trying to be the "nice guy" and show her that I wanted more than just to fukk, but by doing that, I ended up throwing myself into the friendzone.
Have any of you had a guy do that with you? How did you react? Did you think he was a lame/gay/virgin because he didn't make a move? I'm not trying to get at this chick again, but I need to make sure I don't make the same mistakes with the next girl.
*sips, drops the mic & rolls off*
The problem with this is that most woman are passive and don't make a move. They want you to take charge and magically mind read the pace they want you to move at. If you fail to do that and move too slowly, they start to resent you for not following the script they wrote in their head. I wouldn't worry about it though, move at the pace you're comfortable with and find a woman who is compatible with that. It's almost impossible to mess it up with a woman who is really into you.
I bet you like getting your hair pulled.
I'm a soft, romantic woman... not a ghettogagger!!!
Ghost_In_A_Shell
Talk No Jutsu
My answer depends on if you where looking for an long term relationship or not; There is no point in 'taking it slow' when you were just there for the birds and the bees...
