Brehettes....how important are looks to you?

[no.]

he can't be physically repulsive or anything like that

then again if i get to know him, i might change my idea on what's repulsive... it's happened before, with this overly skinny dude with acne. he was a pimply skeleton and at first i was like ''hell nah'' but then it was like ''whatever, he's cool.''

 

[tater]

I'm going to be honest. I remember in HS I really liked this guy named Todd. He was super unattractive, almost bordering on just ugly. I liked him so much though! I let my friends talk me out of it. I mean I remember we were all in detention and everyone was talking about him calling him gorilla in the mist. I didn't even say anything . I could tell it really hurt his feelings (obviously). He only dated white girls though, but we were both those weird black kids. I hung out with all the black people though and he hung out with the gothic white kids. But we listened to the same music, and liked all the same weird shyt. I ended up not talking to him outside of being friends, and I always regretted it. He was like the biggest crush I had then, but I was stupid and superficial.


My dad always said though, think about your kids...

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm going to be honest. I remember in HS I really liked this guy named Todd. He was super unattractive, almost bordering on just ugly. I liked him so much though! I let my friends talk me out of it. I mean I remember we were all in detention and everyone was talking about him calling him gorilla in the mist. I didn't even say anything . I could tell it really hurt his feelings (obviously). He only dated white girls though, but we were both those weird black kids. I hung out with all the black people though and he hung out with the gothic white kids. But we listened to the same music, and liked all the same weird shyt. I ended up not talking to him outside of being friends, and I always regretted it. He was like the biggest crush I had then, but I was stupid and superficial.


My dad always said though, think about your kids...

a black guy named todd

friends will bring you down though especially if they single

I remember when my sister got married all her birdbrain friends at the time were like ew don't marry him he's african

those birdbrain friends are still single, some are single mothers will probably never get a good man. While my sister been married for 7 years and has 3 kids

 

[MikelArteta]

If i let them know I'm not interested, and they want to keep orbiting and hanging on to hope by asking to be a friend that's not my fault



Exactly why I emphasized to ME. After breaking up with someone I've had a friend say " thank god Yall arent together anymore so I don't have to look at that dog faced negro again, he was so ugly , what were you thinking" but he was sexy as heck to me

see @Smoke

the beauty of life, its just like food one person may love pizza while the next finds it disgusting.

 

[010101]

just accept some nikkas was meant to have all the p*ssy

and some were made to have none

play your hand

or cash out and pay for it like ugly nikkas supposed to do*

 

[Ashley Banks]

@Juicy

idk

 

[Meadow]

So we cant work thru these bug ass coke bottle joints in my face

Your eyes and my eyes combined would be some great content for A Bugs Life sequel.

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

The physical fades; character doesn't. If his personality/character is on point, alongside the chemistry, I'm 'bout it.


EDIT: He just can't have lazy or ugly eyes. Eyes are important.

What if they rocking an eye patch so you dont see the lazy eye

 

[Meadow]

Physical fades by that time y'all married 20 plus years..then looks don't matter

In those first 10 years looks are important

How you physically perceive somebody is also subjective. If a connection is there and his/her character/personality is on point, the way you physically perceive them will change.

Unless he or she is busted..

 

[Meadow]

What if they rocking an eye patch so you dont see the lazy eye

I once dated a dude that was not the most physically attractive whatsoever but his character/personality was just so

He was in the friend zone for a good year and still snuck his way out b/c he was just so


1.5 years into our relationship we were in the midst of arguing and it was pretty heated -- I looked him in his eyes, which weren't my fav feature about him, and told myself there and then that shyt is a new requirement on the top of the list

 

[MikelArteta]

How you physically perceive somebody is also subjective. If a connection is there and his/her character/personality is on point, the way you physically perceive them will change.

Unless he or she is busted..

i agree, its why sometimes you look back at an ex and your like i was thinking but you had the chemistryan and connected so well it made em look better than you thought they wer

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

Looks are high on the list for me.
I've dated ugly guys in the past, or shall I say unattractive guys. And when I was younger I dated a fee 'cacs' that can be considered unattractive. I was with one of the unattractive guys (black) for 8 months. His looks grew on me. (He's actually the guy I was talking about in the thread about men not going down on women).

In 2010, I was talking to a guy that was almost perfect. But I couldn't dare him because I didn't particularly find him attractive. I just knew if I dated him I would keep looking for someone more attractive. I miss hanging out with him.
I just looked him up and he's still on okcupid.

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

I once dated a dude that was not the most physically attractive whatsoever but his character/personality was just so

He was in the friend zone for a good year and still snuck his way out b/c he was just so


1.5 years into our relationship we were in the midst of arguing and it was pretty heated -- I looked him in his eyes, which weren't my fav feature about him, and told myself it's a new requirement on the top of the list

I was trolling

But interesting cause and effect there for you..

Once feeling a heightened sense of anger with him...his imperfection was magnified ..

So much so that one man could forever influence your list of requirements...

 

[Meadow]

i agree, its why sometimes you look back at an ex and your like i was thinking but you had the chemistryan and connected so well it made em look better than you thought they wer

Infatuation is one helluva drug.

 

[Diondon]

These chicks have let a Biz Markie looking nikka lick the box before
Cmon now, tell the truth, shame the Devil