Brehettes: How Many Kids Do You Want And When Do You Want To Have Them?

[Ashley Banks]

There is absolutely no pressure in my family to have kids. In fact, if anything it's the opposite. Right now I say I could have 2 max but if I was told I couldn't at this point in my life I wouldn't be devastated. It really just doesn't seem like something that I must have. Kids take a ton of work and the major responsibility of having kids falls on the woman and I don't mean by just being pregnant and delivering I mean taking care of them.

did you really quote yourself in your sig?

 

[KinksandCoils]

did you really quote yourself in your sig?

yea and?
It's been there for over a yr

 

[MayQueen]

3 to 5 girls and I want them in my mid 30s at the earliest. I'm enjoying only having to worry about myself.

 

[Taadow]

A simple well rounded question to speak on.....Some females in my family say they never want kids,

I see...is any of them fine??

 

[Medicate]

I see...is any of them fine??

Yea, but I question this trending thing with these women not wanting kids, shyt is kinda disturbing.....

 

[Medicate]

3 to 5 girls and I want them in my mid 30s at the earliest. I'm enjoying only having to worry about myself.

Damn why yall hate the brehs?

 

[MayQueen]

Damn why yall hate the brehs?

I just think I'd feel more attached to a girl, the kids I sit for I'm closer to the girls(I treat the boys well though too). I just imagine myself as a mom with a bunch of cute little brown skin daughters with a bunch of wild curls running around the house.

 

[Taadow]

I'm over 30 and I wanted to have kids before I turned 35 but I don't think I will ever have them after spending a lot of time with my nieces and nephews. Just thinking about all the work that goes into taking care of them seems like too much for me.

I went to see my nieces and nephews last week and my nephew walked by and he smelled bad and I said to myself ain't no way I would be able to change a soiled diaper. A thought popped in mind head and said "you really shouldn't have kinds because you kids will walk around with shytty diapers" lol

I just don't think I"ll be able to do it. Plus I have a god daughter and she's 6 and kind of a handful.

Congrats to @SelahNicole - the first ever recipient of a Taadow rep. This is a historical occasion. lol

I am an uncle. I have been an uncle since I was young. At this point, I have 8 nieces and nephews.
This is a MAJOR reason I do not need to have children of my own.

Even outside of my personal experience - this world already has too many children we have to take care of
first...

 

[Taadow]

Yea, but I question this trending thing with these women not wanting kids, shyt is kinda disturbing.....

Damn that - lemme get some pics of yo' fambos...tell 'em I don't want kids, either.

 

[Medicate]

I just think I'd feel more attached to a girl, the kids I sit for I'm closer to the girls(I treat the boys well though too). I just imagine myself as a mom with a bunch of cute little brown skin daughters with a bunch of wild curls running around the house.

Oh real? Yea I hear some of yall say you handle girls better, because they more docile, but the boys love you more even when they get older....A man always love and respect his momma than a girl does imo.....

 

[Medicate]

Damn that - lemme get some pics of yo' fambos...tell 'em I don't want kids, either.

Nikka I ain't droppin no pics of my female fam on here, ....They don't play around like that unless they know you, thats for the young thotties........

 

[MayQueen]

Oh real? Yea I hear some of yall say you handle girls better, because they more docile, but the boys love you more even when they get older....A man always love and respect his momma than a girl does imo.....

I would be hard on my son if I had one, have a family full of mama's boys and it is not pretty. Not a one is living on their own, always running back to mommy.

 

[Medicate]

I would be hard on my son if I had one, have a family full of mama's boys and it is not pretty. Not a one is living on their own, always running back to mommy.

I'm talkin about love and respect tho, not mamas boys.......Like in the sembalence of a Kevin Durant, when ole boy gave his MVP speech and made sure he gave the praise to his mother, that type of love and respect, not the emasculated shyt.....

 

[Taadow]

Nikka I ain't droppin no pics of my female fam on here, ....They don't play around like that unless they know you, thats for the young thotties........

I know, i'm just fuccin' wit' you...it's just nice to know there's fe's outchurr that ain't tryin' to get knocked...

 

[Medicate]

I know, i'm just fuccin' wit' you...it's just nice to know there's fe's outchurr that ain't tryin' to get knocked...

True true, but "not getting knocked" and "not having none ever" is sort of different....