Brehettes, Protect Yourselves

[JamilALAmin]

Y’all stay safe get some pepper spray or a knife.

Women need guns bro, a knife and pepper spray isn't enough. Those things do work but the room for error is a lot greater than just simply toting a small pistol. With knives lot of people don't know how to use them properly, I rarely see someone even hold one right, and some folks legit aren't scared of them, the dude might just do the prison shuffle and grab your arm instead of running. You really gotta be trained with a knife for it to be as effective as a gun, folks aint got the time for that. And pepper spray works if you in open area, but let that shyt off in a hallway or an elevator and you might mess yourself up too. Guns are an easier, more simple option, and they got guns like the G42 or the Judge that are basically made specifically to pull out of a bag. A hammerless Judge not getting caught on the inside of chicks purse, and the handle is specifically designed to be easy to just swipe and grab, way easier than fishing for a knife and working your hands around the handle. But the main thing with guns and how they relate to women carrying them isn't the shoot to kill aspect, its the bell ringer part of it. I tell my homegirls all the time, you aint gotta try to kill the nikka, shyt don't even aim at him, just bust in the air a few times. That shyt is loud, first off its waking up the whole block, a knife and some yelling won't do that, and second it's going to at best make that nikka just run off, or at worst disorient him to the point where he can be easily worked, or enable the chick to get away. A gun go off by somebody head and they bout to be moving drunk for a couple seconds, and lot of times thats all someone needs to get away.

 

[Supercoolmayo]

why are guys suggesting she get help from other men?

Shes a woman and fully capable of defensing herself

 

[krisdave]

Girl SHOOT THESE nikkaS, SHOOT THEM

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

but it's a total stranger, you may not ever see them again and what are the chances that she just had a change of heart or isn't in a new relationship, married, pregnant etc etc...

that shyt doesn't make sense...cold approaching is about one thing; smashing. cats try to normalize it with that faulty logic and it doesn't work when you apply it to the real world

Of course you may never see her again. Of course her situation may change. I didn't say trying again at a later date guarantees success, or even has a good success rate. I just meant it's not farfetched to have success later (you could get rejected the first time cuz she's in a relationship or she's in a bad mood, or you look bummy, whatever...the second time you could have success. But not if you come off like a rapist like dude in the vid)

And cold approaches are not just for smashing. It's for whatever you want. I know people who've met their wives/longtime gfs via cold approach. People still meet in public.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

She said no so....just let it go bruh, just let it go .

 

[Basil of Baker Street]

I got too much pride to be begging a woman's time. I don't believe in persistence.

You're coming from a point of submission initially anyways. 99% of initiation is by the man so you're in a very vulnerable position.

 

[Booker T Garvey]

I dont know what breh you are replying to said before, I just saw your post but I have done this before. Cold. Saw her and approached ultimately didnt pull. Saw her again maybe 2mo later and pulled her.
There couldve been any number of factors to have that happen. Couldve had a dude there when I first saw her, couldve been interested in someone else and it fell through, couldve not seen me well the first time and much better the second time (first was in a club, second was at lounge), couldve thought I was a lame then found out through somebody what I was at the time etc. None of it mattered to me cause I smashed but I just wanted to say that it definitely can happen. Im not even sure that was the only time for me.

you mean to tell me you ran up on a chick that had previously embarrassed you publicly - again to try to smash?!

and on top of that, the universe aligned up in such a way that the chick wasn't involved, married, just free to do whatever - and decided to let you smash!?

i dunno man, a lot of completely unnatural human activity going on in these scenarios...

I've also read where chicks have given it up to dudes who were overly thirsty out of fear too

 

[???]

She's playing games and trolling. Most women know how to give that "dont fukk with me look"... this broad loves the attention, you can tell... it wasn't even at night. fukk all that attention whoring crap... ... she could have started to scream very loudly, that dude would have ran away faster than the road runner...

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

This was pathetic. Dude needed to be shot for harrassing that woman.

fukking scum

 

[Booker T Garvey]

And cold approaches are not just for smashing. It's for whatever you want. I know people who've met their wives/longtime gfs via cold approach. People still meet in public.

bullshyt. approaching a woman at a social gathering where people are mingling already like a bar, the club, at a concert, after party etc etc...that's normal.

but i ain't never heard of a dude meeting his wife at the grocery store or gas station....cold approaching is about seeing something appealing to the eye and pouncing.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Women need guns bro, a knife and pepper spray isn't enough. Those things do work but the room for error is a lot greater than just simply toting a small pistol. With knives lot of people don't know how to use them properly, I rarely see someone even hold one right, and some folks legit aren't scared of them, the dude might just do the prison shuffle and grab your arm instead of running. You really gotta be trained with a knife for it to be as effective as a gun, folks aint got the time for that. And pepper spray works if you in open area, but let that shyt off in a hallway or an elevator and you might mess yourself up too. Guns are an easier, more simple option, and they got guns like the G42 or the Judge that are basically made specifically to pull out of a bag. The Judge aint got a hammer, its not getting caught on the inside of chicks purse, and the handle is specifically designed to be easy to just swipe and grab, way easier than fishing for a knife and working your hands around the handle. But the main thing with guns and how they relate to women carrying them isn't the shoot to kill aspect, its the bell ringer part of it. I tell my homegirls all the time, you aint gotta try to kill the nikka, shyt don't even aim at him, just bust in the air a few times. That shyt is loud, first off its waking up the whole block, a knife and some yelling won't do that, and second it's going to at best make that nikka just run off, or at worst disorient him to the point where he can be easily worked, or she enable the chick to get away. A gun go off by somebody head and they bout to be moving drunk for a couple seconds, and lot of times thats all someone needs to get away.

Shooting in the air is illegal in some places. If you have to take it out, plan on using it

 

[Eternally Jaded]

I've been noped n then came back later n got in there.

This dude tho, just blew ANY AND ALL chances of anything happening down the road, cuz he was thirsty n a linestepper.

Shameful behavior

 

[Devilinurear]

You're coming from a point of submission initially anyways. 99% of initiation is by the man so you're in a very vulnerable position.

We are waiting

 

[Eternally Jaded]

bullshyt. approaching a woman at a social gathering where people are mingling already like a bar, the club, at a concert, after party etc etc...that's normal.

but i ain't never heard of a dude meeting his wife at the grocery store or gas station....cold approaching is about seeing something appealing to the eye and pouncing.

Nikka, all it takes is a vibe.

Just cuz you haven't heard of it, doesn't mean it hasn't happened.

 

[Basil of Baker Street]

did you cold approach?

because if you did, you would be the first person to ever cold approach, get rejected and embarrass yourself on the spot, then somehow get her number and smash later

This was at the gym. I think I approached her the first time in the middle of leg day. I was walking around like a baby deer my energy was off. Next time I saw her it was a push day so tris were on high and pecs were on flex and I was wearing a tank top. She had no choice but to succumb to my advances.

She even told me later on she was peeking the muscles that's why she gave me play the second go round.

People are scared of cold approach I don't know why. The best and longest relationship I've ever been in was a cold approach on public transit.