Brehettes, Protect Yourselves

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bullshyt. approaching a woman at a social gathering where people are mingling already like a bar, the club, at a concert, after party etc etc...that's normal.

but i ain't never heard of a dude meeting his wife at the grocery store or gas station....cold approaching is about seeing something appealing to the eye and pouncing.
What are you talking about damn near anytime you see a woman it’s about seeing something appealing and trying to holler. The only difference is if you trying to get at someone at work or something like that where you can be a bytch and wait longer on the bullshyt friendship flow.
 

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Girl SHOOT THESE nikkaS, SHOOT THEM
Don't get blood on dem shoes doe
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Eh. I guess thats subject to interpretation but I can see that. I personally consider cold/warm approach in its most base form of complete stranger vs a mutual friend/prior acquaintance of varying degree.
I agree I see things the same but dude trying to sound different for some strange reason. If you don’t know the girl at all it’s cold approach period and Idgaf what the dating dude online done told you. Only difference is you might have a better chance if she really was staring at you. You never know though because cats love saying hoes staring at them when they could just happen to lock eyes because she was looking in his direction and dudes getting geeked up over nothing.
 

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NY cats is wild with the harassment. I feel bad for these women. One block and the same chick is approached by 12 nikkas.
 

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Cold approaching is a lost art these days and is effective if done right but dude should had just stopped once he saw that the lady wasnt interested. Being overly thirsty is just gonna make it even worse.

Some men can't handle rejection because it scars they're ego. This dude dealing with his emotions like a hoe. No need to get aggressive with her. Just move on yo :snoop:
 

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I thought this was going to be another one of those videos of a chick just trying to embarrass a dude for clout.

Jesus Christ this was a lady legitimately trying to protect herself :picard:

Did he seriously think this would turn her on and change her mind? Who tf raised this nikka? Somebody need to lock that dude up asap.

And did he say "fukk you black people?" :mjpls:
 

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What are you talking about damn near anytime you see a woman it’s about seeing something appealing and trying to holler. The only difference is if you trying to get at someone at work or something like that where you can be a bytch and wait longer on the bullshyt friendship flow.

I guess it's all in how you approach life - I've never had to run up on a woman while she was standing in line at the food court or some random shyt, that's some sociopath shyt.

All the women we run across on social media (which is a great way to meet women now), at cookouts, parties, bars, etc etc...that's more than plenty.

yall some buffalo bill ass nikkas :picard:

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I wasn’t telling it specifically to you Phil simmer down sport. :dahell:

You can take it or leave it. :skip:
Look nikka don’t turn into a bytch ass victim all of a sudden. Nobody said you was telling me specifically. I said you were a liar and that’s that so spare me all the online hoe tactics of me needing to simmer down over calling you a liar victim.
 

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I actually cold approached a chick yesterday at the laundromat. I started off with small talk then got to asking questions about herself/her life and then shooted my shot.:jawalrus:

She told me she got a man and that he was waiting in the car for her:lupe:.

I just told her, I gotta go check on my clothes in the dryer:heh:

Good luck to you and yours I said:salute:
Then I went my way:yeshrug:.


Then I cold approached a chick that worked at my gym and got her snapchat:yeshrug:

Like I said, you wanna be persistent but not overly persistent to where you look desperate and out of whack.

When a chick is giving you good vibes, they're full attention and eye contact that's when you strike. If she ain't feeling it then move on
 

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There is a difference between cold approaching and harrassment and there seems to be few brehs here who don't know the difference. Ask a chick for her number and spitting some game should come to a stop if the woman is legit not interested. If she's playing "hard to get" she is usually simultaneously giving vibes she's not totally turned off and just teasing.

If she looks angry and bluntly say no and trying to get the fukk away then that is a sign it's over and done and you need to move on.

Someone with reasonable social skills should be able to read what situation he is in.
 
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