Brehettes: What's Your Idea Of A Perfect Man?

[Mr.Forte]

Yea she a keeper for any common sense dude with her attitude.......

Definitely, I know how to pick em

 

[Nymbus]

good looking
tall
not a pig
rich
in shape
does what I tell him to do

What's that mean to you?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Me and my girl got a annual pass to our local gym.....We go in everytime we go............

Men push you. When I go, I'll stop after I get a nice lil glow feeling energetic. That was great!
Dudes be like, sheeiiit. That was the warm up!
Up dem reps. Weights looking a lil too easy for you. Get the 20 lbs.
Hold dat plank!

Now we gon jog back....

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Best response so far

Props

Thanks! U live, u learn.

 

[Mr.Forte]

Thanks! U live, u learn.

Life is the best teacher

It's the best comedian too

 

[Medicate]

Men push you. When I go, I'll stop after I get a nice lil glow feeling energetic. That was great!
Dudes be like, sheeiiit. That was the warm up!
Up dem reps. Weights looking a lil too easy for you. Get the 20 lbs.
Hold dat plank!

Now we gon jog back....

My girl be comin to the court to ball in the gym, after we hit the stairmaster,leg lifts,pullups and some weights, we have a gym where dudes be ballin, and she be challenging me to 1 on 1 and gets in on the 3 on 3's .....I be like..... But then after we get it in, she can actually ball............a little

 

[MikelArteta]

I don't even list the basics because they should be a given if ur trying to build something serious.
Everybody in my family is ridiculously tall (ie mom is 6'1). I was the short one. (5'6) So unless it's extreme, height is the last thing I notice.
My list is based off what I'm learning I need from dudes the more I date.

-strong quick sense of humor
-get my geek references
-a love of learning
-be attractive to me
-be willing to let me in emotionally
-not feel stifled or anxious or resentful about spending time with me outside of fuking.
-affectionate. I like being touched and touching people.
-strong respect and love of family
-reciprocity. If I'm willing to give my all, I expect nothing less from u.
-don't lie. I don't care what chicks u dealt with in the past, I don't punish people for the truth.
-love God. None of these religion is corrupted, perpetual adolescence, oppositional defiance bullshyt. Just be willing to acknowledge that there is something far more powerful beyond what u can ascertain empirically even if u don't get down with man made religion.
-Be marriage minded. I'm not just fuking randoms. My parents have been in a 43 year marriage. I want a piece of that as well.
-be willing to grow financially with me. Build credit, learn about stocks
-No negativity and/or nasty attitudes. Just a waste of existence...
-Be aware of my struggle as a blk woman just like I'm sensitive to a blk man's struggle.
-Be loyal.
-Love me.
-Work out with me.

See. Easy, right?!

 

[MikelArteta]

I don't even list the basics because they should be a given if ur trying to build something serious.
Everybody in my family is ridiculously tall (ie mom is 6'1). I was the short one. (5'6) So unless it's extreme, height is the last thing I notice.
My list is based off what I'm learning I need from dudes the more I date.

-strong quick sense of humor
-get my geek references
-a love of learning
-be attractive to me
-be willing to let me in emotionally
-not feel stifled or anxious or resentful about spending time with me outside of fuking.
-affectionate. I like being touched and touching people.
-strong respect and love of family
-reciprocity. If I'm willing to give my all, I expect nothing less from u.
-don't lie. I don't care what chicks u dealt with in the past, I don't punish people for the truth.
-love God. None of these religion is corrupted, perpetual adolescence, oppositional defiance bullshyt. Just be willing to acknowledge that there is something far more powerful beyond what u can ascertain empirically even if u don't get down with man made religion.
-Be marriage minded. I'm not just fuking randoms. My parents have been in a 43 year marriage. I want a piece of that as well.
-be willing to grow financially with me. Build credit, learn about stocks
-No negativity and/or nasty attitudes. Just a waste of existence...
-Be aware of my struggle as a blk woman just like I'm sensitive to a blk man's struggle.
-Be loyal.
-Love me.
-Work out with me.

See. Easy, right?!

so good I had to quote it twice

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

itt women post the opposite of the type of men they actually go for/date

 

[okra]

Why would a man have to understand your "craziness"? Men don't want nothing to do with any woman that can cause potential "drama" at least not any dude with common sense........

sorry....

 

[no.]

I... honestly don't know? I mean, I've always had my standards, but I never really stopped to think about perfect because it's not like I'd ever meet that. I guess that's part of me not expecting men to make me happy or even contribute to my happiness I sometimes have these moments of enlightment as to why my relationships are so lackluster... the problem being me Gotta hold on to that single life.

 

[MikelArteta]

I... honestly don't know? I mean, I've always had my standards, but I never really stopped to think about perfect because it's not like I'd ever meet that. I guess that's part of me not expecting men to make me happy or even contribute to my happiness I sometimes have these moments of enlightment as to why my relationships are so lackluster... the problem being me Gotta hold on to that single life.

 

[no.]

I mean, I know what is a "good man" in general.

But I don't know what is the perfect man TO ME. I don't know what kind of person would match me, what kind of person I'd fall in love with. And there's enough emotional distance between myself and guys that I can't just learn by trial and error.

 

[MikelArteta]

I mean, I know what is a "good man" in general.

But I don't know what is the perfect man TO ME. I don't know what kind of person would match me, what kind of person I'd fall in love with. And there's enough emotional distance between myself and guys that I can't just learn by trial and error.

your young
patience!!

took me 29 years to realize what I desire in a brehette

 

[Elle Driver]