Brehettes: What's Your Idea Of A Perfect Man?

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so good I had to quote it twice

Thanks baby. I always dread gettin flamed b/c of my walls of text. Lol! I like writing. But most of it just seems like common sense, but it takes time to find someone who's ready and in the same place mentally as you are.

 

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So ladies what level of cooperation do bring for you "ideal man"? Are we talking an initial 60/40 or more like 80/20?







Also ladies would you be willing to tell a fib for your ideal man?

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

You already know

I am ideal

 

[InDePickWest]

Rich
Attractive
Not a hoe
Listens to indie-rock/pop-rock/soft rock
Doesnt want kids..anytime soon
Big you know what
Leaves me alone when I want
Somewhat of a personality

^^Thats it. Show him to me and I'm female-simping on sight

 

[Ashley Banks]

I can already tell why a lot of you are single and will be single for a long time. And if you are in a relationship, no way it will last with this mindset........

uh oh someone doesn't like what I said.

All I did was describe my man, well except the rich part but he's doing pretty good so I'll give him a pass on that. So I don't know what you mean by it won't last with that mindset, I think that's just what you want to happen.

Also, you should stop thinking that just because you don't agree with something, no one agrees with it.

 

[Medicate]

uh oh someone doesn't like what I said.

All I did was describe my man, well except the rich part but he's doing pretty good so I'll give him a pass on that. So I don't know what you mean by it won't last with that mindset, I think that's just what you want to happen.

Also, you should stop thinking that just because you don't agree with something, no one agrees with it.

No I would like you to have much success.....but that mentality in choosing a mate is not one that will either get you one or is sustainable. It will either make you pass up a lot of brothers or bush one you do get.........You should change your thinking.

 

[BoogieDown23]

I don't even list the basics because they should be a given if ur trying to build something serious.
Everybody in my family is ridiculously tall (ie mom is 6'1). I was the short one. (5'6) So unless it's extreme, height is the last thing I notice.
My list is based off what I'm learning I need from dudes the more I date.

-strong quick sense of humor
-get my geek references
-a love of learning
-be attractive to me
-be willing to let me in emotionally
-not feel stifled or anxious or resentful about spending time with me outside of fuking.
-affectionate. I like being touched and touching people.
-strong respect and love of family
-reciprocity. If I'm willing to give my all, I expect nothing less from u.
-don't lie. I don't care what chicks u dealt with in the past, I don't punish people for the truth.
-love God. None of these religion is corrupted, perpetual adolescence, oppositional defiance bullshyt. Just be willing to acknowledge that there is something far more powerful beyond what u can ascertain empirically even if u don't get down with man made religion.
-Be marriage minded. I'm not just fuking randoms. My parents have been in a 43 year marriage. I want a piece of that as well.
-be willing to grow financially with me. Build credit, learn about stocks
-No negativity and/or nasty attitudes. Just a waste of existence...
-Be aware of my struggle as a blk woman just like I'm sensitive to a blk man's struggle.
-Be loyal.
-Love me.
-Work out with me.

See. Easy, right?!

@1:21

 

[Ashley Banks]

No I would like you to have much success.....but that mentality in choosing a mate is not one that will either get you one or is sustainable. It will either make you pass up a lot of brothers or bush one you do get.........You should change your thinking.

My thinking is fine, I'm not gonna dump man. So it works for me. Obviously that's not all I look for but I don't feel like typing all that out because it's a lot.

 

[MikelArteta]

My thinking is fine, I'm not gonna dump man. So it works for me. Obviously that's not all I look for but I don't feel like typing all that out because it's a lot.

wheres my invite?

 

[thirdeye]

a perfect man doesn't exist.

 

[Ohene]

Potential foolery.

In

dude swagged out on that one

 

[Ohene]

Derek luke single with no children with a PhD in planetary geology from Cal tech and a multi-billion dollar trust fund.

But at least

Christian
Faithful
Romantic
No kids
Wealthy and responsible with money
full head of hair
Nice body
Nice voice
gold tooth/ teeth
iq at least 2 standard deviations above the mean
Loves me and nice to me

why do yall be hating on non-religious black men man

 

[mtu wa chuma]

I didn't know you ladies knew me in real life. Describe me so well.

 

[Ashley Banks]

wheres my invite?

I'll email you one when we send out the second invites in september.

 

[miranda]

why do yall be hating on non-religious black men man

Not hating at all, it just obviously wouldn't work

And can someone tell me what's wrong with a gold tooth?