Brehettes, why don't y'all approach men that you like?

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

I've only ever hit on one guy in my entire life and I made myself look like such a loser I was blatantly hitting on him and he never asked for the digits my soul was crushed.

I will never do anything like that again.

He dissed u

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I've only ever hit on one guy in my entire life and I made myself look like such a loser I was blatantly hitting on him and he never asked for the digits my soul was crushed.

I will never do anything like that again.

Explain how you were "hitting" on him

Edit:

Nvm

 

[O.T.I.S.]

True, I was being so direct though I kept saying how good looking he was and asking if he was single it could have been much worse but my sisters saw how thirsty I looked so they told me to stop lol.

Damn....























Welcome to the average day of a nikka

 

[Ria_21]

Damn....























Welcome to the average day of a nikka

 

[JQ Legend]

True, I was being so direct though I kept saying how good looking he was and asking if he was single it could have been much worse but my sisters saw how thirsty I looked so they told me to stop lol.

That actually is somewhat direct

I get how u feel but your soul shouldn't be crushed

He might have been shy, oblivious, or had low self esteem

U thinking someone is the shyt don't mean everyone else do

I had low self esteem and when chicks would like me I would think it was a prank

A chick I had a huge crush on sent her homegirl to ask if I liked her. I didn't realize she sent her so I said "no" thinking if I said yes and it got back to her, her beautiful ass would be like

Got back to her I said "no" and she didn't speak to me again

Granted this was in like 7th grade but still we know damn well grown people nowadays are just children in adult bodies

He didn't reject u, insult u, etc so u shouldn't take it to heart for all your know he coulda felt the same way

 

[kwazzy100]

So basically you want men to have the confidence that you lack when they approach you

This is why I hate the double standard. Rejection sucks no matter what. Like it's un-manly to not be told you're not wanted.

 

[Lord_nikon]

Basically I think women don't approach men because of outdated traditional beliefs that was pass on to them. example

1. Men should always pay for for food.
2.Men should always pay the rent.
3.Women should stay home and keep the kids
4.The perfect man is out there for you
5.The man should always approach you.
6.I man should save you and help you with all your problems.

Most women I have dated showed at least two of those characteristics.

 

[Ria_21]

That actually is somewhat direct

I get how u feel but your soul shouldn't be crushed

He might have been shy, oblivious, or had low self esteem

U thinking someone is the shyt don't mean everyone else do

I had low self esteem and when chicks would like me I would think it was a prank

A chick I had a huge crush on sent her homegirl to ask if I liked her. I didn't realize she sent her so I said "no" thinking if I said yes and it got back to her, her beautiful ass would be like

Got back to her I said "no" and she didn't speak to me again

Granted this was in like 7th grade but still we know damn well grown people nowadays are just children in adult bodies

He didn't reject u, insult u, etc so u shouldn't take it to heart for all your know he coulda felt the same way

I managed to get over it after a while. I feel like I'm even more nice now to men who approach me, it takes a lot of courage to do it.

 

[Obreh Winfrey]

I managed to get over it after a while. I feel like I'm even more nice now to men who approach me, it takes a lot of courage to do it.

You got a man?

 

[paperbag]

I've only ever hit on one guy in my entire life and I made myself look like such a loser I was blatantly hitting on him and he never asked for the digits my soul was crushed.

I will never do anything like that again.

Was he blind?

But to the OP, if a man liked me he would approach me. Indifference means he's not attracted, so why even try, you'd get rejected or used

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

hoes scared of rejection from men and club bouncers

 

[BaeLuh]

If he's fine enough for me, especially if he has pretty eyes. I'm letting him know them things are gorgeous

 

[Whogivesafuck]

Nah most decent looking women reject 80% of dudes to try them.

 

[Jean Jacket]

Ladies got more options.

 

[Shadow King]

Because they're only equal when discussing how many dikks a year they can take compared to how much p*ssy were supposed to be able to go get.

But when the pursuit must be made they will never step up to that by and large.