Brehs and brehettes, ever have a jealous significan't other??

[Desirous]

Did they start off ok then transition to bein jealous or were they always this way from the jump

Transitioned
How did u respond the first time they displayed the behavior

I told him I don't deal with jealousy well and he needs to quit
Did they become verbally and/or sometimes physically abusive with you

Verbally, yes...a whiny baby who would try to insult me so that he can try to be the victim. Never physically.

Has there ever been a fight between them and someone who they thot was flirting with you

Yes. Not a physical fight, but words were exchanged.
Whats the craziest thing they've ever did out of jealousy

Messed with a girl I disliked just to get my attention after we broke up.

Did they become manipulative and controlling

Tried to, but I cut him off when I saw where things were headed.
How did the relationship end...or if ur still with them how did they conquer their jealousy


Just broke it off. There was some drama, lots of words exchanged etc., but I was very young then, too. If this were now, I wouldn't have entertained it and just cut him off and ignored him instead of trying to explain so much and it leading to arguments.

@Raedawn07 strt us off please

 

[Raava]

have u considered filing a restraining order, or taking self defense classes?

No it stopped. If it had continued I don't know what I would have done. I thought about telling my daddy and letting him buy me the gun he wants. But then he would have tried to find my ex.

 

[Remote]

No it stopped. If it had continued I don't know what I would have done. I thought about telling my daddy and letting him buy me the gun he wants. But then he would have tried to find my ex.

 

[KOOL-AID]

No it stopped. If it had continued I don't know what I would have done. I thought about telling my daddy and letting him buy me the gun he wants. But then he would have tried to find my ex.

wow ur dad sounds scary

 

[2-Digit]

BM was super-jealous. Didn't know it until a few months into it and a female friend of mine called me out of the blue. SHE picked up my phone and went HAM on the poor girl.
Told me I don't need to be talking to any other females except for her.I believed her because my moms used to say that same type of shyt to my dad.
You would have thought that would have been enough for me to toss her to the bushes. Nope, I stuck around and took the L like a lil bytch because I was young, dumb, naive as fukk, listened to old-fashioned advice, and she

Had the best puss.

None of those female friends were breaking me off, so I figured it wasn't a loss to not speak to them as much.
Things were downhill after she started to want to see pay stubs from a second job that I had to prove I wasn't out running wild.
Had to break it off after she attempted to break my fingers and then threaten to call the cops after assaulting me.
I needed WAYYYYY better male guidance in my first few adult years

 

[Music Fiend]

I can be jealous, but I won't say anything about it.

But it's mostly insecurity that makes me jealous. broads will do things to specifically make you jealous and act like an angel, t he call you insecure when u feel a way about it.

Needless to say, I try to stay away from women who play games.

I have however been with a women who was jealous, but i don't think it was really her personality as much as it was just where she was at in life. When you don't have much going on in life it's easy to be insecure w/ others who are more active or insecure because they think once you find out how "not cool" they are, you will leave.

 

[Raava]

What? I been to the gun range before

wow ur dad sounds scary

No so much anymore, use to call him crazy.

 

[AJtheOne]

What? I been to the gun range before

lemme find out you outchea like

No it stopped. If it had continued I don't know what I would have done. I thought about telling my daddy and letting him buy me the gun he wants. But then he would have tried to find my ex.

good cuz I don't wanna have to fly down there and

you know

 

[Vice Queen]

damn Vice, glad u broke it off before he ended up killing you. How has the experience affected ur dating process and relationships?

It made me look hard at myself. Before anyone else, I had to look deep into myself. Still am.

Just cause ur mom didn't get the beats doesn't mean that u didn't deserve it

This is true, but I, like my dad even said when we talked about it, I had better examples than that. And domestic violence advocates like to say that no one deserves it, but I knew what I walked into. And considering the back and forth I have with depression, there were times I felt like I deserved it, because I didn't try to do better with my life and sometimes he reinforced that notion.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

It made me look hard at myself. Before anyone else, I had to look deep into myself. Still am.



This is true, but I, like my dad even said when we talked about it, I had better examples than that. And domestic violence advocates like to say that no one deserves it, but I knew what I walked into. And considering the back and forth I have with depression, there were times I felt like I deserved it, because I didn't try to do better with my life and sometimes he reinforced that notion.

Even though I grew up dirt poor I'm some unknown refugee camp back in 89

I never had any reason to feel depressed

Maybe I'm stringed mentally unlike some of y'all

 

[Vice Queen]

Even though I grew up dirt poor I'm some unknown refugee camp back in 89

I never had any reason to feel depressed

Maybe I'm stringed mentally unlike some of y'all

More power to you man. I don't know why it happens, it just does.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

More power to you man. I don't know why it happens, it just does.

What city are u in if you don't mind me asking?

 

[Vice Queen]

What city are u in if you don't mind me asking?

LA

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

LA

Really I been out here for 5months
Just moved from Toronto...got tired of running thru the six with my woes so wanted to make a move

 

[KOOL-AID]

Really I been out here for 5months
Just moved from Toronto...got tired of running thru the six with my woes so wanted to make a move

breh i ain't know u was out here too, i'm in Sacramento