Nikka, none of them can come into your house. Can you really imagine knowing a bunch of your friends have rearranged your wife's insides and had her loving them yet they decided she wasn't worth cuffing?
This is the most important detail. You're not just getting someone's sloppy seconds, you're getting
leftovers. She's seen as not good enough in the eyes of those guys to be in a relationship with them, but once you start cuffing and cupcaking with this broad, you'll lower
yourself in their eyes because you are with what they see as a substandard chick.
Also,
five of your buddies hit that and determined that she wasn't relationship worthy. FIVE. They all obviously saw some shyt in her that was undesirable. RED FLAGS EVERYWHERE.