brehs/brehettes how would you proceed if someone told you they cheated in the past

[DarlingNikki]

I don't have time to fix a grown ass man. No thanks.

 

[Black Hans]

I would date them like anyone else. People do stupid stuff and regret it all the time, breh.

 

[The 2020 New Member]

Dump them for being so stupid as to tell me they cheated. Unless you did it to me, I don't need to know. Let's just move on.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Would you look at the honesty as

Or would they be sidepiece/emotional tampon status from herein out


Would it matter if its a emotional affair not a physical?

I would appreciate their honesty but I would definitely lose interest in them. ugh

Doesn't matter if it's physical or emotional.

 

[RiffRaff]

I would thank them for their honesty and take that L and push

I have a zero tolerance policy.

This is how I feel. Sometimes social media is a gift and a curse. If a girl I'm clearly talking to is entertaining other dudes, I'm not going hard for her anymore. I don't have the tolerance for that ish, even if we aren't officially together. In this scenario she cheated in the past?! Instant bushes

 

[dap-man]

It wouldn't matter if she said she had a emotional affair or physical one. Cuz I wouldn't want her any more. She wouldn't be in my life as my woman or a jump off. I don't care why she cheated in the past cuz I don't respect that shyt at all.

My trust in her would be 0.00%.

 

[MikelArteta]

thecoli.com

 

[Raava]

Everybody has a past, people do different things. I wouldn't treat them any different tbh. I would hate for someone to judge me on mistakes I made in my previous relationships that I don't do anymore. You live and you learn. If what I have in front of me is a good dude I'll give him the benefit of that doubt until he shows otherwise.

Edit: To be clear, if this was a one time or something that happened a while ago. I don't know how I would be to someone who did it for years in every relationship.

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

I know people make mistakes, and many people would be like "If it was only once, then it's okay," but nah, my mind doesn't think that way (and you'd really have no way of knowing if it was really "only once" anyway). Who's to say they aren't lying about that?

Cheating indicates a lack of willpower to me, and that's unattractive.

 

[Tunez]

Dont matter im still smashing anyway

 

[swag2011]

i don't even know. but research shows past behavior is the best indicator for future behavior.......... just something to keep in mind.... cheating isn't a mistake either, it's a choice....

it depends..

 

[FukyourFort]

id downgrade the situation to something more casual but id be nice to her probably and still kick it

 

[iBrowse]

If I hear you cheat, then I skeet and retreat.

:umadcac:

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

How deep in the relationship are we?

 

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