Brehs, can you take a woman serious if you smashed her on the first night? Like eventually end up in a relationship?

[Richard Glidewell]

I always fukk on the first date........before p*ssy was being handed out like participation awards........I make a date in the future, by the time it happens it's never in doubt. Some led to relationships, some didn't.

 

[desjardins]

So would it be better if she made you wait months despite giving it up the first night to x amount of other dudes in her past?
Hate to break the news but the vast majority of adults have had some kind of one night stand/sex on the first date before
Whether I take you serious or not has nothing to do with how fast we have sex, especially since one of my major goals is to have sex as fast as possible. Why would I penalize women who give me what I want

 

[Dzali OG]

Iono, maybe I'm conceited, but I expect that.

 

[Still Benefited]

Depends on the situation. Was there once in a lifetime butterflies,sparks flying,music playing in your head,undeniable chemistry? If so she possibly felt the same overflowing of love and emotion.


If thats the case,you wont have an option but to take her serious. Regardless of your previous standards you expect women to hold themselves to. Cant pass on that once in a lifetime love

But seeing as how rare this happens in someones lifetime,the answer is clearly no#NoHellhounds

 

[Kingofthereal]

I look at this topic differently than most people. I feel like just because I hit the first night don’t mean every other nikka did. I’m just that cocky and confident though.

 

[African Peasant]

No.

Lack of moral and/or self control.

 

[Roid Jones]

Keep thinking that a woman making you wait means she's a good one or the relationship is guaranteed to last

 

[skeetsinternal]

Would you worry about all the other nikkas who prolly hit it first night? Or do you think you just that nikka, so it was prolly the first time it happened. Lettuce discuss.

It's not complex so I don't know why nikkas be worried or ask themselves these questions. The bytch ain't never yours or is the p*ssy ever yours. It's just your turn. Your job as nikka is just to manage the hoe in every bytch and in turn the hoe needs to manage a nikka's ego.

 

[African Peasant]

So would it be better if she made you wait months despite giving it up the first night to x amount of other dudes in her past?
Hate to break the news but the vast majority of adults have had some kind of one night stand/sex on the first date before
Whether I take you serious or not has nothing to do with how fast we have sex, especially since one of my major goals is to have sex as fast as possible. Why would I penalize women who give me what I want

It's not a punishment.

You just treat her the way she presents herself.

 

[African Peasant]

Keep thinking that a woman making you wait means she's a good one or the relationship is guaranteed to last

Nope. She can be a hoe too.

But a woman who gives it on the first meeting is a guaranteed to be one.

 

[Braman]

I’ve heard from MANY women ‘if we fukk I’m not gon talk to you no more’. So I know plenty view a dude different if they smash right away

However after a certain age i came to realize this:

Most women don’t expect shyt from you when yall first meet. They done heard everything. So the beginning with no expectations is ironically when yall vibe best. You can even be a legit ‘good dude’ but she isn’t gonna believe it. So dont try to MAKE her. If SHE don’t let you smash and she don’t fold cool , don’t force it. But if she giving it up, you gotta take it. The chips will fall where they supposed to

And the elephant in the room is that’s a legit way to hook her in WHILE you establish all the real shyt.

 

[MikelArteta]

I bedded my fiance the day I met her.

congrats breh

 

[Braman]

I’m going thru this now. Met this chick at a concert. Bad joint She looks like the type back in the day I would come correct, go slow, assume she’s hard to get, etc. Man, when I did that shyt i used to get friend zoned

So now I’m aggressive and ABC, always be closing. Ended up meeting, coffee, day party, then ffwd she was a complete freak. No judgment at all. I’d still wife it

You really would enjoy women more when you remove traditional expectations from them. Judge her by how she carries herself in public. How she is around men. If she looks like she for everybody, or is overly flirtatious , THAT is an issue. But not what she do behind closed doors

 

[AngryBaby]

I'm dating a chick and we had sex first date. But I kinda always aim to have sex the first date.

Most solid abnd professional chick I've been with. The ones that tried to play games with it, were actually always the sketchy ones in my experience that never worked out. Usually gatekeeping sex is a power dynamic move on the females half, so if she's doing that then she sees "power" to withholding sex. Which leads to issues.

Stop being noobs.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

Yes. There's more to life than red pill ideology on youtube.