Brehs, Describe the Life Experiences that made you #HOH

[TEH]

I became #HOH after my first girl friend left me for a dude with more money

She didn't even end it right away not until she and him had been going out for months without my knowledge

and I spent so much money on her ...

(that ass was fat though)

brehs was I stupid and a real simp

I as a simp online sometimes but back then I was simping for real

#FDB

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Is there any other way to live?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I swear it's true. No BS.

 

[Idaeo]

i was 16 in a long distance relationship with this jersey girl. she played the hell out of me...not only was she cheating...had me thinking i got her pregnant.

 

[TEH]

Let's look at this acronym #HOH and break it down ...

Hard on Hoes

It's not hard on ladies or hard or brehettes

It is HARD ON HOES

and we never ever loved them hoes

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ever ...

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#HOH is like quills on a porcupine it prevents thots from getting too close

but its no threat to who I'm supposed to be with ...

#HOH is being practical and sensible and not putting all women on a "pedal stool"

Mater of fact if you are not #HOH take this L

 

[Youseenmywork]

I finally feel settled, lots of good things happening for me.

I had a pretty good year outside of the breakup in June. Salute to you and your year

 

[CoochieMane]

I'm not HOH nor am I a simp/pretend nice guy both are wack to me
I treat everyone the same, I'm respectful until you disrespect me then it's bushes for you and I've always known people ain't shyt so there's nothing that can shock me into becoming HOH.

 

[3rdWorld]

Its a fine line between being bitter and angry.

I suspect early relationship trauma is why some brothers date out in their latter years..I know it's too simplistic an explanation but it holds true..people, bitter and angry people naturally learn to avoid whatever hurt them. So if I am in a black hishschool and the girls treat me like a walking turd yet I'm seeing other 'more deserving' dudes effortlessly getting love and attention that shyt will affect me more than you can imagine. Hence why so many dudes choose to look for love relationships away from who they associate with traumatic experiences when they get older.

 

[semicko82]

I suspect early relationship trauma is why some brothers date out in their latter years..I know it's too simplistic an explanation but it holds true..people, bitter and angry people naturally learn to avoid whatever hurt them. So if I am in a black hishschool and the girls treat me like a walking turd yet I'm seeing other 'more deserving' dudes effortlessly getting love and attention that shyt will affect me more than you can imagine. Hence why so many dudes choose to look for love relationships away from who they associate with traumatic experiences when they get older.

 

[Bless't]

It was difficult for me. I got hurt really bad last time around. Didn't think I would ever open up again. I just got lucky. I can explain it any other way. Vulnerability is a beautiful thing when you're with someone who won't prey on it.

I'm setting myself up for a great 2017. A new start, in a new city. Im excited and grateful.

I'm just sayin I can't blame someone who doesn't want to let someone in, especially after you got burned before.

The only question you have to ask yourself, is the upside worth the risk. That's something I asked myself and I decided that it was . Now I just have to let the chips fall where they may and do my best to be a great partner.

Congratulations on the love you've found. Happy for you Elle.

Jesus christ I agree with this.

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

*First girlfriend CHEATED on me...I forgave her and continued in the relationship
2 years later I CHEATED and she gets her ex to STEAL MY CAR

*Second girlfriend dumps me just as the new school year for HS begins

Im shellshocked ..no explanations or nothing

We hook up for a one nighter just after she graduates

I ask her..."keisha...why did u break up wit me?!?"

She responds..."I know it was fukked up..I just decided I didnt want to be in a relationship in high school...I wanted to be a freak during that freshman year"


*Third girlfriend aborted my child....then got her puzzy ate by some old fling of hers three days later....

She said it NOT CHEATING....if he just eating da puzzy... smdh


*An ex fiance decides to try finesse me outta some Abortion Money...bish wasnt even pregnant wanting 350 bucks from me

*Country azz byatch calls me up accusing me of giving her an STD had me all worried and shyt till I got tested and was NEGATIVE

Come to find out she was sleeping with an ex boyfriend who just finished a ten year bid in prison

*I moved in with a Section 8 broad who threw a remote control at my head ....dumped iced water on me while im taking a hot shower..slapped me at my workplace pulled a knife on me..and stole my ATM card

*moved out the secton 8 bish place...got my own shyt and met a Bible Thumping byatch who wound up stalking me ad tried to run me off the road with a stolen rental car

*new bish from NYC whom happens to be a cousin of Remy Martin files bankruptcy behind my back just as we were shopping for a new home

*just had a VISIT from a community college teacher who wanted to have lunch with me....after lunch she wants to go to my place for some rest before she goes teaches her night class...

During the whole time on the way to my crib she warns me NOT TO TOUCH HER she just getting her rest

20 minutes into her "resting" on my bed....with Jodeci playing on the Pandora smart TV....

I slid her skirt off and she let me drill her with full consent

Lying azz bish didnt even HAVE ANY PANTIES ON!!