Brehs, Describe the Life Experiences that made you #HOH

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I'm supposed to ban myself
But seen this thread

How many times I gotta tell y'all nikkas that humans are inherently selfish by nature
That everybody should look out for their own self interest

Humans will always disappoint you so don't be surprised when it happens

Charge it to the game and move on
Just always remember to put yourself first
 
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The II XX said:
Because women ain't shyt breh. It's as simple as that. Every man has some motivation, some key fukk up that could make him #HOH, it's just about whether or not you choose to be that way. But the reason is there for every man.

I got lucky, but if not for my wifey now, I'd be HOH as well, like I was.

It doesn't mean that I want to go around hurting girls, or that I get off on hurting them.

It means I genuinely don't have time for em anymore. Prior to this relationship. I was on my no relationship AT ALL shyt.

Most women ain't deserving of a serious man who loves them. Most these bytches don't even deserve to be loved. That's a fact.

Men also love way harder than women. So theres that.

HOH is actually the key to happiness. It's not even about hurting women, it's about cutting off every single possibility they have of hurting you. Which all men should do.
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I've gotten off relatively easy compared to a lot of brehs in the thread it seems. I've actually been pretty #HOH just naturally but took one minor loss in college. I dated a really high maintenance girl for ~9 months in college and had it come crashing down in flames- probably missed out on some lifelong friendships because of the level of attention she needed / time invested.

After that I told myself "never again": I come first and any woman who wants me to put my studies / life / career on the chopping block is not the woman for me. I've learned that the sooner you give in like that, the sooner you lose 'em anyway- game over.

Also, the amount of women I've messed with who I've later come to see are married or were in serious relationships when I messed with them is staggering. Instagram lets you peak into the lives of women you've messed with assuming you have their number, and it's startling as fukk. A lot of them are leading double lives.
 
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Elle Driver said:
I was in the same position, and dead ass 2016 is probably the best year I've had in the last 10 years. I just don't think it's healthy to be so closed off. I was in that frame of mind and it's trauma manifesting. You have to work through it and, not to be corny, but let love in especially us black folk.
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How has been your best year 2016 ?
 
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Yusuke said:
Men do the same so I cant just hold it against one and not the other
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Yeah but you said you never had anything traumatic happen to you. How old was she? Ain't you say like 27? Did she have a family?
 
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SheWantTheD said:
Yeah but you said you never had anything traumatic happen to you. How old was she? Ain't you say like 27? Did she have a family?
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It wasnt traumatic to me back then. I think its because I didnt know any better though. And she was in her mid or late 30s. And had a husband and a daughter in middle school at the time.
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No men do the same and get punished for it.
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My point was that they both do it.
 
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Yusuke said:
It wasnt traumatic to me back then. I think its because I didnt know any better though. And she was in her mid or late 30s. And had a husband and a daughter in middle school at the time.

My point was that they both do it.
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How old were you? 16 right? How did it affect you? Maybe it affected me the same way. You should really make a thread on it.
 
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Old girlfriend started having an emotional affair with a cot damn minister at church. Broke up with me to try her chance with dude, lying about it the entire time.

Also in college just overall seeing women go after the same type of man. Black women claim bm don't value them, but the reality is bw only value a certain type of man. They build their perceived value of themselves based on the attention they get from simps, then use that perception to chase after the men who have more real value than them. It's like

After that I started building my own image on my own value, and not on trying to impress women. Life did a complete 180
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:ohhh: Bruh you literally just changed my way of thinking. I'm done approaching or giving these bytches any attention after reading that. You're 100% right.
 
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