Brehs do you have a female companion?

[shylittlekitten]

The whole "agenda" thing works both ways. I've come into contact with a lot of females that I've developed friendships with w/o any sexual interest/flirting and just like guys, they'll play along until they're finally like "You're such a great guy...I like you...why have you never considered a relationship, maybe with someone like me?"

...and as a guy, you don't want to burn a chick's world down b/c a lot of them react to rejection like mono. Just disappear for days with a bunch of hurt subtweets/statuses so you got to hit them with the "I wouldn't want to ruin what we have in our friendship. I like things how they are."

...when inside, I'm really thinking...

I have never had this happen with a guy because all of them had an alterior motive.

But I can see that.... I tend to shut dudes out as friends. I used to have a lot of dude friends but they are too hardcore for me. I'm a sensitive little butterfly inside.

 

[Action Jackson]

I have a lot of guy friends, they're more honest to me than my girlfriends lmao. Plus they're usually more fun to do things with. I smoke with them, go for lunch, play basketball, video games. My female friends hate doing this shyt.

Before you say anything I used to be a tomboy and I couldn't fit in with girls without doing or saying something awkward, also played a lot of sports

I know I speak for a lot of guys when I say this, them athletic chicks that like to ball and play video games You're just askin for a dude to catch feelings.


But to keep it on topic, the OP sounds like he wants to have something in between a committed relationship and a fukk buddy. Outside of dating, I don't know if that exist breh. Someone is always going to catch feelings. I tried to have that with this college chic a few years ago. She wanted something serious but since we were so honest with each other and some of the shyt she told me I didn't think she was cuff-it-up material. Saw her a few months ago when she came back to town for homecoming. She was all upset when she saw me crying and telling me how much she cared for me. She has a man now but she can't get me out of her head.

Someone is just bound to get hurt, and you never want to hurt your friends. My advice would be to keep your female friends and fukk buddies separate.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I honestly see no need to be platonic friends with females. I enjoy spending time with my sisters and my mother, they're the only female friends I need

 

[Action Jackson]

no lie im a nice guy, i'd even paint a chicks toes

or

 

[innocentdevil]

I have one close male friend.....I would smash if given the opportunity lol

 

[BastardChild]

 

[mortuus est]

I have one close male friend.....I would smash if given the opportunity lol

u dont wanna run game on him, experiment

 

[mortuus est]

I honestly see no need to be platonic friends with females. I enjoy spending time with my sisters and my mother, they're the only female friends I need

dunno how u can do it bro

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I have one close male friend.....I would smash if given the opportunity lol

If thats you in that avi you already have the opportunity. No simp but I'd do some deplorable and disgusting things to your body

 

[mortuus est]

or

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[MAKAVELI25]

dunno how u can do it bro

I honestly don't find most females to be all that interesting. Of course I'm attracted to them, but I wouldn't chill with them on a non-sexual basis. This isn't saying anything negative about females, but I just don't find I have much to converse with them about. Whats sad is that the few females that I've genuinely found to be interesting/entertaining weren't all that physically attractive

 

[PopOnCloud9]

I have one, she's cool and actually a good woman. I wouldn't do anything with her because shyt went sour I'd have to dead her because of awkwardness. She's got a nice figure but a wise man wants told me there's no need to fukk every woman. Once you fukk a platonic friend it's RIP to the friendship.

 

[shylittlekitten]

no lie im a nice guy, i'd even paint a chicks toes

Everyone knows dudes who like to play the nice guy persona are douches in wait.

 

[JillScottsHunny]

Nope. I don't find them that interesting. I only use them for sexual purposes.

 

[mortuus est]

I honestly don't find most females to be all that interesting. Of course I'm attracted to them, but I wouldn't chill with them on a non-sexual basis. This isn't saying anything negative about females, but I just don't find I have much to converse with them about. Whats sad is that the few females that I've genuinely found to be interesting/entertaining weren't all that physically attractive

i know that feel, sometimes you just have to soldier it