Brehs I need serious advice

[BrothaZay]

This is me bein 100, no trollin no satire no jokes.

So basically today i been thinking. My life is not how It should be. Im 19, dropped out of college, live with my moms, no car anymore, sell weed to pay the little bit of bills I have, just making mistakes all around. I dont even make music anymore cuz of sellin.

My moms sees this so a couple weeks ago she talks to my uncle and he like "Im a manager at the cheesecake factory out here, I can get you a job starting out in the kitchn here"

Im like "8 dollars an hour? To live in nashville?

I told my girl about it she laughed too, den i told her Im not leaving her.
Den yesterday I found out she been cheatin, last night, my ex who I thought was on good terms wit was jus laughin at me saying I got wat i deserved etc,, den another ex said the same thing.
Yesterday last night was jus a bad day all around.
Lost my job after da accident, so i jus been sellin, out my damn house.
My moms said she givin me til march 1 but my uncle told me if i dont have nothin by janunary 10th jus come out there, for a minimum of 90 days and if i dont like it i can dip.

Idk what to do broz

I was thinkin of joinin da military
so i guess my options is

-stay out here and fake like im goin to scoo to make my moms happy until da semester over n she sees i aint been doin shyt

-da military

-my uncle in nashville

idk brehs


@Chris.B @Coney Island @Crakface @puppeteer

 

[Chris.B]

Nashville looks like a good place to start.... I assume you will be living rent free with your uncle?

 

[Shogun]

 

[BrothaZay]

Nashville looks like a good place to start.... I assume you will be living rent free with your uncle?

yea but even if i wasnt i got like 500 dollars saved up from da hustle
and hes gettin me a job

 

[Chris.B]

yea but even if i wasnt i got like 500 dollars saved up from da hustle
and hes gettin me a job

I will take that opportunity and use it to save some money.

 

[cleanface coney]

you in LA aint you?

 

[BrothaZay]

you in LA aint you?

im in Dallas

 

[skeetsinternal]

You at a crossroads breh. In life you reach crossroads where you need to make choices. The choices you make might be for the best and then again it may not be the right choice, however a choice has to made in order for you to move on in your life. The advice I was given was when you make any choice or decision, you man up to the choice you made, you go hard to reach your goal and stick to your guns despite the adversity and challenges. Thats what will make you a man. You young and dumb breh but I give you props that you at least thinking about changing your life at such a young age. You have many avenues which you can follow but only you can choose that path, either way the choice you make and the effort put forth will determine the final outcome.

 

[jilla82]

what would you be doing in the kitchen? I worked in the CC Factory for a few years as a server. A lot of cats didnt last long in the back of the house. For $8hr he's probably trying to get you a job as a cleaner.

not to be a bad influence but every restaurant (especially something like the CC Factory) has a weed dealer...that would be easy money.

You need to focus on ways to make money.
Honestly, not being in college means you have a lot of free time to do shyt...especially on the internet.

 

[The Nigerian]

This is me bein 100, no trollin no satire no jokes.

So basically today i been thinking. My life is not how It should be. Im 19, dropped out of college, live with my moms, no car anymore, sell weed to pay the little bit of bills I have, just making mistakes all around. I dont even make music anymore cuz of sellin.

My moms sees this so a couple weeks ago she talks to my uncle and he like "Im a manager at the cheesecake factory out here, I can get you a job starting out in the kitchn here"

Im like "8 dollars an hour? To live in nashville?

I told my girl about it she laughed too, den i told her Im not leaving her.
Den yesterday I found out she been cheatin, last night, my ex who I thought was on good terms wit was jus laughin at me saying I got wat i deserved etc,, den another ex said the same thing.
Yesterday last night was jus a bad day all around.
Lost my job after da accident, so i jus been sellin, out my damn house.
My moms said she givin me til march 1 but my uncle told me if i dont have nothin by janunary 10th jus come out there, for a minimum of 90 days and if i dont like it i can dip.

Idk what to do broz

I was thinkin of joinin da military
so i guess my options is

-stay out here and fake like im goin to scoo to make my moms happy until da semester over n she sees i aint been doin shyt

-da military

-my uncle in nashville

idk brehs


@Chris.B @Coney Island @Crakface @puppeteer

It's good that you already know that selling drugs is a mistake. If you're not careful it's a mistake that can cost you dearly. I've been in a few raids and have had guns pointed at my face because I was friends with guys in the game or trying to get in the game. So many of us get caught up by this bullsh!t that it should be apparent to any young brother that dealing isn't the way.

You might want to take your uncle up on that Cheese Cake Factory gig, just to get you out of your current living situation and back into a working mindset. I know that $8.00/hr doesn't sound much but the opportunity presented to you is so much more than that.

You also mentioned that you're a creative. Day jobs, especially easy ones, are great for creatives because it forces you to practice better time management. Not only that, but your creative pursuit becomes more rewarding as it's contrasted against the banality of a day job. Also, it puts money in your pocket that you can put toward your creative outlets.

Also, Nashville is a GREAT city to be a musician. Use this opportunity to network. I'm sure there's going to be ample opportunity to connect with other members of the Nashville scene.

Again, don't scoff at your uncle's offer. It may be the opportunity that saves your life.

Get at me via PM if you want to chop it up, breh. Life is a beautiful struggle. We are in this together. Happy New Year, breh.

 

[cleanface coney]

im in Dallas

i would go to Nashville if i was you

BUT before you go....you need to be motivated by something

whatever it is, i think you need to find it otherwise you might get distracted

write down a couple goals you wnna accomplish(nikkas joke but this shyt work real talk)

other than that you seem like a smart nikka thats hip...you'll be aite

 

[BrothaZay]

It's good that you already know that selling drugs is a mistake. If you're not careful it's a mistake that can cost you dearly. I've been in a few raids and have had guns pointed at my face because I was friends with guys in the game or trying to get in the game. So many of us get caught up by this bullsh!t that it should be apparent to any young brother that dealing isn't the way.

You might want to take your uncle up on that Cheese Cake Factory gig, just to get you out of your current living situation and back into a working mindset. I know that $8.00/hr doesn't sound much but the opportunity presented to you is so much more than that.

You also mentioned that you're a creative. Day jobs, especially easy ones, are great for creatives because it forces you to practice better time management. Not only that, but your creative pursuit becomes more rewarding as it's contrasted against the banality of a day job. Also, it puts money in your pocket that you can put toward your creative outlets.

Also, Nashville is a GREAT city to be a musician. Use this opportunity to network. I'm sure there's going to be ample opportunity to connect with other members of the Nashville scene.

Again, don't scoff at your uncle's offer. It may be the opportunity that saves your life.

Get at me via PM if you want to chop it up, breh. Life is a beautiful struggle. We are in this together. Happy New Year, breh.

You right breh. But my uncle told me, whatever I do from now on, ima have to start from the bottom up. Like he did, hes finna be the head chef soon and shyt.
As far as music, I just got a keyboard.
Ima bring that, fucc wit dat on my freetime.

 

[Still Benefited]

Hell nah nikka,relocating for kitchen work...you better off in the military if you don't want to go to school or get a govt job. Anything is better than becoming a felon ill say that much,especially if you only got 500$ to show for it,get ya mamas house taken, get locked up and make it hard on yaself in the future where the ONLY option you got is kitchen work.

 

[BrothaZay]

Hell nah nikka,relocating for kitchen work...you better off in the military if you don't want to go to school or get a govt job. Anything is better than becoming a felon ill say that much,especially if you only got 500$ to show for it,get ya mamas house taken, get locked up and make it hard on yaself in the future where the ONLY option you got is kitchen work.

I can cook. All i gotta do is take it seriously and he said i'll be cookin if i decide to stay with him and not run bacc home

 

[How Sway?]

military.or go back to school.

nashville is a good music city but it's mostly for Country Music though