Breh's... I think I've been smitten (is this what it feels like?)

[Nomadum]

Yo.... I feel all types of weird right now. and I don't know how to proceed forward. I finally got the guts up to offer a chick at my school out to lunch. when she first accepted I could have skipped home (no homo lol). had a nikka like . man we hit it off solid at the lunch and the whole 9 but she said something that made me feel like " not this shyt again". she said her mother warned her about guys like me who say all the right things (trust me, I didn't think I was lol). and now I'm like... she is 110% wifey material. Smart as shyt, beautiful and sexy, her smile make a nikka ..... like I'm for real smitten by this Queen. I just don't know how to play it cool without being too nonchalant (an issue I've had in the past).

Like I want to pen a letter to her (I don't express my feelings and emotions too well verbally) but I don't want a letter to come off like a stalker move, I can see me handing it to her and she hit me with " slow down there scrap" type shyt lol I'd probably end up like

Yo..... this shyt is cool and all (feeling this way because it's been atleast 10 years since I've felt this type of attraction) but this shyt so fukking scary, I don't want to fukk shyt up and I feel like I'm lost and don't know how to proceed with this shyt.

Coli Bredren, Help a dude out. what would y'all do? (Brehettes you're more than welcome to chime in, I need some solid advice before I do some lame/dumb shyt)

 

[no.]

DON'T write a letter after the first date. DON'T.

Just call her or meet in person and ask for a second date. Since you like her so much, make it a real nice date and just try to leave the best impression you can.

But after the first date it's still too soon to be writing love letters.

 

[Brother Sean]

Put the p*ssy on a pedestal breh

 

[Nomadum]

Put the p*ssy on a pedestal breh

trust me breh, if you met this chick you'd put the pedestal on a pedestal and then put her on top of that one. real shyt

DON'T write a letter after the first date. DON'T.

man... I keep getting mixed answers. it's not like a "I Love You" type letter. it's one in which I'm telling her why she's so dope to me.

lol man this emotion shyt is so fukking mind bending. wtf is going on

 

[aaaaaaa]

Imma just leave this here

Mods, Admins, Architects step in here
Discussion in 'Event Staff' started by Nomadum, Thursday at 7:45 PM.

90% of the first page of this section is all race bait related threads and postings, all coming from users who are assumed to be Black being racist against White's. but if a user disagrees with these idiots who make these dumb ass posts, they automatically are labeled CAC, C00n, Uncle Tom and some more racial charged bullshyt. why you dude's and dudettes not actively modding these type's of threads? how is it cool to be able to speak hatred against one ethnic group while claiming you(the thread creators) are victims of racism?

maybe I'm tripping.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

she said her mother warned her about guys like me who say all the right things (trust me, I didn't think I was lol).

We've got a young prodigy on our hands. Physical attractiveness is always going to be the most important aspect of attracting women (obviously), but the gift of gab is the next best thing. Do your thing, pimp

 

[Matt504]

Don't be afraid to be "lame" if that's what comes natural. Don't do anything unnatural to you and find yourself in a conundrum where you get "good" advice from the coli and have to keep coming back for more advice just to have a certain impression on this young lady.

Just be yourself and if she doesn't like you for who you are, maybe it's not the best situation for you.

 

[SheeBadd]

Aww She Feeling U Just Be Real She Probably fall Fast As well.

Depends on What's in the letter Dont Rush A Relationship But Show Enough Interest So She Knows The Feelings Mutual.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Ask her for 2nd..fukk ask just plan 2nd date

Don't try to fukk her
Be you

 

[Prynce]

 

[no.]

man... I keep getting mixed answers. it's not like a "I Love You" type letter. it's one in which I'm telling her why she's so dope to me.

lol man this emotion shyt is so fukking mind bending. wtf is going on

well dude

it's a sweet gesture but at this point (one date) it can come off as if you're trying too hard, ya feel me?

i mean y'all only went out once

i think you should be more subtle with stuff for now

you have a bunch of things you like about her, right? try to deliver them as compliments, not all at the same time... here and there. it'll make her feel good, and it won't have the effect of a letter

if you guys are meant to be and hit it off, there'll plenty of time to write letters later lol

 

[JordanwiththeWiz]

Treat her like shyt breh the more #HOH you are the better they responded

 

[Elle Driver]

Just be yourself and learn to verbally express yourself to her in the same way you would in that letter. Just don't psyche yourself out. She's human too. She could be feeling nervous too.

 

[jadillac]

tell her you don't give a damn what her mama thinks.

Tell her It's either you or her mama.

Come back and tell us her reaction and we'll give you the next piece of advice

 

[Kitsch]

Imma just leave this here

Mods, Admins, Architects step in here
Discussion in 'Event Staff' started by Nomadum, Thursday at 7:45 PM.