Breh's... I think I've been smitten (is this what it feels like?)

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Yo.... I feel all types of weird right now. and I don't know how to proceed forward. I finally got the guts up to offer a chick at my school out to lunch. when she first accepted I could have skipped home (no homo lol). had a nikka like :ooh:. man we hit it off solid at the lunch and the whole 9 but she said something that made me feel like ":ohlawd: not this shyt again". she said her mother warned her about guys like me who say all the right things (trust me, I didn't think I was lol). and now I'm like... she is 110% wifey material. Smart as shyt, beautiful and sexy, her smile make a nikka :noah:..... like I'm for real smitten by this Queen. I just don't know how to play it cool without being too nonchalant (an issue I've had in the past).

Like I want to pen a letter to her (I don't express my feelings and emotions too well verbally) but I don't want a letter to come off like a stalker move, I can see me handing it to her and she hit me with ":whoa: slow down there scrap" type shyt lol I'd probably end up like :dead:

Yo..... this shyt is cool and all (feeling this way because it's been atleast 10 years since I've felt this type of attraction) but this shyt so fukking scary, I don't want to fukk shyt up and I feel like I'm lost and don't know how to proceed with this shyt.

:sadbron: Coli Bredren, Help a dude out. what would y'all do? (Brehettes you're more than welcome to chime in, I need some solid advice before I do some lame/dumb shyt)
i'd write her that letter. let it all out, pour all your emotions into it, write at least four pages, if not more. woman like a man who can show them his sensitive side, it will make her love and respect you. :troll:
 

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We've got a young prodigy on our hands. Physical attractiveness is always going to be the most important aspect of attracting women (obviously), but the gift of gab is the next best thing. Do your thing, pimp :myman:

Nah, definitely not trying to pimp or have multiple women. the older I get the more I'm recognizing that having 1 strong woman in your corner is beneficial as hell. I'd be a fool to try to game this one.

Don't be afraid to be "lame" if that's what comes natural. Don't do anything unnatural to you and find yourself in a conundrum where you get "good" advice from the coli and have to keep coming back for more advice just to have a certain impression on this young lady.

Just be yourself and if she doesn't like you for who you are, maybe it's not the best situation for you.

Lol, I feel you. my posting here is to get a broad overview of ideas. I know all with a grain.

Aww She Feeling U Just Be Real She Probably fall Fast As well.

Depends on What's in the letter Dont Rush A Relationship But Show Enough Interest So She Knows The Feelings Mutual.

I'd thought that but wasn't sure because she come's real cool. but I definitely feel you.

Ask her for 2nd..fukk ask just plan 2nd date

Don't try to fukk her
Be you

true.

well dude

it's a sweet gesture but at this point (one date) it can come off as if you're trying too hard, ya feel me?

i mean y'all only went out once

i think you should be more subtle with stuff for now

you have a bunch of things you like about her, right? try to deliver them as compliments, not all at the same time... here and there. it'll make her feel good, and it won't have the :whoa: effect of a letter

if you guys are meant to be and hit it off, there'll plenty of time to write letters later lol

true.

Treat her like shyt breh the more #HOH you are the better they responded

lol, ah homie made the same joke about how women like a$$hole type dudes. but nah, that ain't my character. I type wild shyt on here because that's the format to argue with trolls but on the regular I'm laid back studying or brainstorming ideas off in my own zone.

Just be yourself and learn to verbally express yourself to her in the same way you would in that letter. Just don't psyche yourself out. She's human too. She could be feeling nervous too.

I understand.

tell her you don't give a damn what her mama thinks.

Tell her It's either you or her mama.

Come back and tell us her reaction and we'll give you the next piece of advice :sas1:

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don't go full boyle

boyle?


no, I'm not going to broadcast her business like that. it's bad enough I'm on the coli talking about it with some of you funny dudes, lmao son say "tell her it's either you or her mama" :deadmanny:
 

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i'd write her that letter. let it all out, pour all your emotions into it, write at least four pages, if not more. woman like a man who can show them his sensitive side, it will make her love and respect you. :troll:

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lol yall wild as shyt.
 

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Yo.... I feel all types of weird right now. and I don't know how to proceed forward. I finally got the guts up to offer a chick at my school out to lunch. when she first accepted I could have skipped home (no homo lol). had a nikka like :ooh:. man we hit it off solid at the lunch and the whole 9 but she said something that made me feel like ":ohlawd: not this shyt again". she said her mother warned her about guys like me who say all the right things (trust me, I didn't think I was lol). and now I'm like... she is 110% wifey material. Smart as shyt, beautiful and sexy, her smile make a nikka :noah:..... like I'm for real smitten by this Queen. I just don't know how to play it cool without being too nonchalant (an issue I've had in the past).

Like I want to pen a letter to her (I don't express my feelings and emotions too well verbally) but I don't want a letter to come off like a stalker move, I can see me handing it to her and she hit me with ":whoa: slow down there scrap" type shyt lol I'd probably end up like :dead:

Yo..... this shyt is cool and all (feeling this way because it's been atleast 10 years since I've felt this type of attraction) but this shyt so fukking scary, I don't want to fukk shyt up and I feel like I'm lost and don't know how to proceed with this shyt.

:sadbron: Coli Bredren, Help a dude out. what would y'all do? (Brehettes you're more than welcome to chime in, I need some solid advice before I do some lame/dumb shyt)

Imma just leave this here

Mods, Admins, Architects step in here
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OP get your ass in here I got to neg you after reading this because you must be a confused niqqa or cac smh :snoop:
 

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OP get your ass in here I got to neg you after reading this because you must be a confused niqqa or cac smh :snoop:

So my views upon what I felt was and is some bullshyt in regards to race bating relates to relationship questions in the relationship section? I didn't state the females race. Eveything in the thread I still stand by, you all thinking I'm "Cape'n for CaCs" or that I am a "CaC" but you all have yet to see me say or support some outright racist shyt. my entire stance is that in order to foster peace and better treatment we have to begin putting those vibes out. I still maintain that shyt wont get better until people start showing more love and respect to others within and outside their race and that each race should police it's own community just as harshly as they judge other communities. that goes for everyone. :yeshrug: so take it how you feel champ.
 

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So my views upon what I felt was and is some bullshyt in regards to race bating relates to relationship questions in the relationship section? I didn't state the females race. Eveything in the thread I still stand by, you all thinking I'm "Cape'n for CaCs" or that I am a "CaC" but you all have yet to see me say or support some outright racist shyt. my entire stance is that in order to foster peace and better treatment we have to begin putting those vibes out. I still maintain that shyt wont get better until people start showing more love and respect to others within and outside their race and that each race should police it's own community just as harshly as they judge other communities. that goes for everyone. :yeshrug: so take it how you feel champ.

:ohhh: :dwillhuh:

Common Breh is that you
 
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