Brehs in a stable relationship. How do you stay faithful.

[Neuromancer]

Have a conscious and genuinely care about your girl. I had bunch of opportunities to cheat last time I was in long term relationship( some really good looking women too) but the though of possibly hurting my girl was just too overwhelming for me to ever consider going through with it.

I don't want to hurt her.

 

[Dominicansbelit]

Then what's the problem? Just be honest. Tell her you want a open relationship.

/thread

 

[bigrodthe1]

Once you get old and mature enough you get over the bullshyt that come with sleeping with multiple people and you want to actually grow something.

 

[Neuromancer]

Once you get old and mature enough you get over the bullshyt that come with sleeping with multiple people and you want to actually grow something.

I'm a late bloomer was more monogamy oriented before I got cheated on.

 

[Dirty Mcdrawz]

By choosing to stay faithful......

25mins of sex isn't really worth hurting some one I care about nor is financially in my best interest.

 

[Won Won]

I can't count how many times I wanted to ask her to go for a drink. But in the interest of professionalism I didn't (the deal hadn't closed yet either)

Not for your girl's sake, but out of professionalism

 

[Rekkapryde]

I don't want to mess up what i got

More so than just my wife, I'd be cheating on my entire family and betraying their trust, and risking all of our lives and happiness.

No woman is worth that

Don't forget the wallet either.

 

[Forlife44]

Colette Swingers Clubs

 

[Bless't]

Makes sense. It depends on the situation. There is no exact science to it nor a right or wrong way to go about it. I do believe that once you reach a certain age (30+) especially without children, you kind of appreciate the peace that comes with that lifestyle (adulthood and freedom).

Sleeping around with randoms bring a lot of unnecessary drama; especially when you are at a point in life where you are sharpening your skills. Being unfaithful brings a lot of unknown into the equation, specifically, demand mostly on your greatest asset which is time.

Chances are if you chose your lady, there is a reason you did. If those reasons are still important, stick with her. If not, play the field.

Hope that helps.

Yessir!

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

Sometimes being faithful is a great excuse to not talk to these stuck up hoes

 

[Archangel]

My brethren does not this idea of polygamy hinder our community? Is this not one of the reasons why a large portion of our youth grow up in single parent homes? The Lord thy God hath commanded us in this generation to marry only one person. But be cautious my brethren for the adversary and his demons look to destroy all that God hath created, even the structure of the male/female relationship. We should fight against the temptations of lust for it has been the destruction of many a man. Do not be added unto that list my friends.

God hath blessed the marriage between a husband and wife but the adulterers He hath condemned. Thou shalt not commit adultery nor fornicate lest ye make your place in hell for all eternity. God bless you all and your successful monogamous relationships.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Yessir!

LOL. I didn't make it, but I see the peace that my guys who do not have children have and it makes me happy for them.

Yeah man... Pac did that so hopefully yall wouldn't have to go through that.

 

[Giselle]

I know lonely 50 yr old men who still try to sleep around. Immature with age and money. Still trying to go to clubs trying to get with women. Sometimes try to hang out with their adult kids b/c they're so lonely. Don't be like them. Stay faithful.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I got low key the GOAT girlfriend. I have no reason to cheat

 

[Strapped]

Cheaper & safer to be faithful