it's a two way street..but try new things,even stuff like booking a hotelroom in your own city and take her out and show her the town in a way she has not seen it before.Doing stuff together is what counts.I like to get her drunk sometimes too and we play pick up games with women or we let women approach me and kick game while she watches and then swoops in and starts making out with me..she loves that shyt.Make her remember why she chose you in the first place,that is rule number 1 breh,she will do the same with you