Brehs in your 30s, what is the big difference in DatinG etc. compare to your 20s?

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Lots of flabbiness.

But based on what I'm seeing from my cousins, if you took care of business financially, and health wise, you will have options.

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Flabby options though.

Lots of flabbiness...
 

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You really can't do shyt about getting old except focus on your health. That's the most important thing I say.

Most my homies that are 30 are balding, receding, etc. I've just been blessed to get a few greys in the beard and at first I was self-conscious but I was just like fukk it. Now I don't care at all because most females I know like the shyt.

As long as your health and finances are good, 30's aren't that bad
 

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Knowledge and experience are the two big differences between your 20's and 30's. If you took care of yourself physically, there won't be much of a difference from 20's to 30's. Don't get caught up thinking some big change is going to happen just because you turned 30. People will tell you you're old, but you are still very young in grand scheme of things. People's perception of time and aging is distorted.
"Time is subjective."

I always tell people, age ain't no absolute. You "age" based upon your personal choices, as well as genetics.
 

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Knowledge and experience are the two big differences between your 20's and 30's. If you took care of yourself physically, there won't be much of a difference from 20's to 30's. Don't get caught up thinking some big change is going to happen just because you turned 30. People will tell you you're old, but you are still very young in grand scheme of things. People's perception of time and aging is distorted.

30 isn't very young at all.

You 30 year olds are always so sensitive about being considered young/old are not. You are older, you aren't very young. Get over it. I have honestly never hear late 30's -40+ year olds complain about being considered young or not. It's always the ones approaching 30 or the ones in their early 30's.You guys trying to stay and act young his messing up everything. Grow up. There's nothing wrong with being old or older.
 

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30 isn't very young at all.

You 30 year olds are always so sensitive about being considered young/old are not. You are older, you aren't very young. Get over it. I have honestly never hear late 30's -40+ year olds complain about being considered young or not. It's always the ones approaching 30 or the ones in their early 30's.You guys trying to stay and act young his messing up everything. Grow up. There's nothing wrong with being old or older.

Considering life expectancy is around 80 for females and 76 for males 30 isn't considered old.
 
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30 isn't very young at all.

You 30 year olds are always so sensitive about being considered young/old are not. You are older, you aren't very young. Get over it. I have honestly never hear late 30's -40+ year olds complain about being considered young or not. It's always the ones approaching 30 or the ones in their early 30's.You guys trying to stay and act young his messing up everything. Grow up. There's nothing wrong with being old or older.

I agree with what you said. But I didn't mean very young as in still being a child or teen. I meant that since most people are living into their late 70's and 80's people in their 30's aren't old at all. That's what I meant when I said " in the grand scheme of things". As far as "acting young" I don't know what you mean, because i don't see 30 year olds hanging with teens or people in their early 20's for that matter.

As someone that has grown up around people much older than me they always say how I'm still young and just getting started in life. People in their 30's still have more than half their life to still live. It's crazy to see people in their 30's talking like their supposed to just stop doing things they enjoyed. What's sad is seeing people being so eager to call someone else old or young, because at the end of the day it doesn't really matter and no one cares. Just live your life and do what you want to do...that's it.
 
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Great question my boy!


I'm 34, one of the biggest things I've notice is women know my time is valuable. No games, no cancelling on me, no rescheduling. Probably the way I carry myself. So no more 30 day / 2 week rules, more like 3 days if that. Soon as I hear


YOU'RE BETTER OFF WITH A YOUNGER CHICK if you can get one.
A dummy woman at 20 is a dummy azz old woman at 30. Stop thinking all these 30+ woman are smart and insightful all of a sudden. A lot of them are in debt, mostly the professional ones. Student loans, New maxima car note (was upside down on the 2012 one), shopping, eating out, traveling addictions. Might be jaded and ran thru also. And still dreaming of a NBA wives lifestyle.

One thing that's going to determine how you date is if you have kids. I don't. Seems all my friends in their 30 without kids, are vibrant and seem to date younger women. My spirit is still 25, I dated a chick my age, I feel like I'm with my aunt or something.

I'll have to say puzzy is more enjoyable to me now. I use to just beat it up, now I savor it if she's fly. I'm nastier now too, eating azz is on the table now. Especially with drunk :shaq:
 
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