Brehs is having kids overrated?

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I worked in the Health care field and it was a BIG DIFFERENCE between the old folks who had kids, and the old people who didn't have Kids or didn't have a healthy relationship with their kids.

Society really doesn't give ONE FUKK about old people. They just want them to be unseen and hurry up and die already so they stop taking tax dollars.

So the advice to all yall who are never having kids or are shytty parents: Enjoy life now, try and ball out, club, and buy things.

But when you reach between 60-75 COMMIT THAT, Trust me...You won't regret it :manny:
 

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Never have kids yet but If I do wants kids....I have to get married and meet the right lady but it's hard to find one but however I don't want to get married. I just want freedom for awhile with my life whatever the f*ck I want to do.

I do loves kids, I have 3 nephews and love them so much....so proud of my brother married to his wife for 9 years without call them "Baby Daddy" and "Baby Mama" shyt. Both of them have a good ass job.......:salute: at my brother and my sister-in-law.
 

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No. The joy you get from seeing your offspring grow and develop :wow:

Sometimes it'll mellow you out when you need it. Especially a lil girl :sadcam:
 

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cool what do u think bout sum females not wanting kids or adopting:mjpls:

My cousin who is a girl, she never want kids in her life that surprised me because his boyfriend do want to have kids with her in the future but my cousin was like :camby:
 

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Seems like the people that should NOT be having kids are more likely to do it :patrice:

Make sure it's what you want brehs. I don't think a lot of people understand the gravity of producing another human being. They're like my sister who got a puppy cause she thought it was cute, but she didnt understand the full scope of what it means to be a dog owner. Having a kid is like that but a million times heavier.
 

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I worked in the Health care field and it was a BIG DIFFERENCE between the old folks who had kids, and the old people who didn't have Kids or didn't have a healthy relationship with their kids.

Society really doesn't give ONE FUKK about old people. They just want them to be unseen and hurry up and die already so they stop taking tax dollars.

So the advice to all yall who are never having kids or are shytty parents: Enjoy life now, try and ball out, club, and buy things.

But when you reach between 60-75 COMMIT THAT, Trust me...You won't regret it :manny:
but i know loads of kids that don't look after there parents,

I know someone with 5 kids, theyre 85 had a stroke not one of the children look after them

and I also know people that had loadsa children there kids didn't look after them but friends do or younger family members. this having children as old age insurance is utter bullshyt.
 

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WOW!!! People really think having kids is overrated? People would prefer a lambo to kids? :what:

Kids are the greatest. Watching a little you take their first steps :wow: When they are infants and they fall asleep on your chest. So proud to be a dad :banderas:

Yeah, I remember one time when I saw my nephew, he was 3 years old and he walked to his pop and said, "I Love you, Dad" to my brother, that putting my brother smile on his face and that shyt had me :to:. It makes me think about if if I have my own kids that say that to me :wow:
 

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but i know loads of kids that don't look after there parents,

I know someone with 5 kids, theyre 85 had a stroke not one of the children look after them

and I also know people that had loadsa children there kids didn't look after them but friends do or younger family members. this having children as old age insurance is utter bullshyt.

You not having kids is a GREAT thing cause you would DEF be a HORRIFIC parent...By the way you posting.

Also you probably know a lot of shytty parents, thus you see the results. Cause I can't imagine someone who was raised with morals and values leaving they parents fukked up like that.

My moms is good, cause me and my brother love her and even though she doesn't need us to take care of her We look out for her ANYWAYS.
She also finds immense joy in being a grandparent as does my wife's parents.

i understand family isn't for everybody, but I done seen first hand how it turns out for these old playas when they can't play anymore and it ain't pretty.
Most end up bitter and lonely.
 

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Being a dad is great...you get to teach them all the shyt that you are interested in at a young age....I got my kid listening to music and around my muscle car and all shyt and she not even a year old
 

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It's not overrated, it's a joy. It's also work and can be stressful as hell. A blessing. Just the other day my son (who is going on 8 months) said "da da". I just looked at him and smiled. He is a beautiful guy. I never thought I'd have children, but he might be the last. Don't have too many where your dreams are on permanent hold. I'm 35, had my first at 34. My wife is 30. I don't see how Niccas have seeds at 14 and 15.
 

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Underrate thing for me. When you grow up in a world that celebrates death, there is nothing more breathtaking than seeing a new life enter this world. Especially a life you had a hand in creating.
 
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