Brehs, Is It Common For Men To Cheat After Having A Baby?

[Charlie Hustle]

I hear its common for men to start cheating after having a baby. Is this true?

Depends on who you ask and what event(s) shaped their opinion.

With that said, if you trust your husband enough to have a baby with him, you should not worry about him cheating on you after the baby.

 

[Super Future Luther King Jr.]

Yes

Unfortunately I speak from personal experience



We still together tho

 

[#SOG_soldier]

I don't respect any nikka that doesn't cheat

 

[wickedsm]

I'm sure for alot of men it's hard for them to go from being your number one priority to being your number two.
Some choose to act out.

 

[Coli Bot]

It's common for liars to cheat.

Real men have integrity.

Be a man and be upfront. Leave.

You'll benefit down the road. Trust.

 

[#1 pick]

No

 

[Wiles]

No.. Just make sure u still are tryin to be physical. Men we are
easy creatures..good luck

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

no

 

[miranda]

So you really think if your man is married for the rest of his life to you....f..from whatever his age is now until 77...he should fukk you and only you?

Yes that's usually what couples agree to as part of the marriage vows. If you need something different you should make that clear upfront

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I don't respect any nikka that doesn't cheat

Bruh we seen't your room, u are barely getting one chick at a time let alone more

 

[InDePickWest]

then dont get married

Exactly. I had a nikka tell me to my face that a woman wanting a man to sleep with only one woman for the rest of his life is 'selfish'. I told that idiot either don't get married or only do so to a woman that doesn't mind sharing her husband. MOST do. Me personally, I don't expect anything out of my fiancé that I can't provide myself.

So yes I expect the man to be with only me if he married only me

 

[jamma]

Most women lose their sex drive after giving birth for a few months. Has something to do with hormones.

Men cheat after a baby because women don't let them fukk regularly anymore. If you bring yourself to have sex with your husband even if you don't necessarily feel like it (of course wait the six weeks after giving birth) and try to get in shape again, your husband is not more likely to cheat than any other time.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Yes, men are more likely to cheat DURING pregnancy and shortly after.

Why? Because of all the hormonal changes, many women may not feel like having sex at all, and after giving birth it takes time for the vagina to shrink so it can receive a penis.

I'm not at all surprised though, because society does not teach sexual discipline. In fact the opposite is true, if you aren't out here having sex than something must be wrong with you.

Why should a man not be able to get sex if his wife isn't giving him because she doesn't feel like it from pregnancy hormonal changes?

Nah, but real talk. Most women don't want their man watching porn and masturbating, and on top of that he ain't having sex with you. And y'all want this to go on for what 11+ months? The whole pregnancy and after giving birth?

The vast majority of men have either been busting nuts in their hands or in some p*ssy, so this ain't a surprise at all. Men aren't taught sexual discipline and the importance of it.

 

[malbaker86]

Me and my husband are trying to have a baby, and I keep hearing horror stories from girls about how their baby fathers and husbands started having affairs before their child turned two.


I hear its common for men to start cheating after having a baby. Is this true?

Nah it actually happens more while she pregnant moreso than after pregnancy from what i've seen.

My wife just had twins in December, a c-section, and we were fukking again mid January. Her sex drive was fine, it's just the initial fatigue of having a new born. I'll say this, once yall get that baby down for the night after 8pm and yall have a few hours to yourselves before heading to bed for the night, yall gonna be looking at each other like

 

[Spence]

If you have a natural birth and it demolishes the cooch he's going to get tail elsewhere if you arent providing at least head