Brehs, Is It Common For Men To Cheat After Having A Baby?

[MegaManX]

Maybe some of the women don't feel like doing it after birth. For a while.

like ever.

I am married. shyt is wack as fukk. No random shyt at all. No matter how much I talk about it. Nothing changes. In the end, I am too honorable to cheat.

I feel my personal level of success can be attributed in some value to her so I feel I should honor the pact.

Plus, my kids are fukking exceptional. Not risking that shyt.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Bruh we seen't your room, u are barely getting one chick at a time let alone more

INot true breh.





My ex actually broke up with me when I got had 9 from her younger cousin





Why you nikkas think bytches care about a clean room. No 19 year old keeps a clean room unless he

 

[malbaker86]

like ever.

I am married. shyt is wack as fukk. No random shyt at all. No matter how much I talk about it. Nothing changes. In the end, I am too honorable to cheat.

I feel my personal level of success can be attributed in some value to her so I feel I should honor the pact.

Plus, my kids are fukking exceptional. Not risking that shyt.

How long as it been this way bruh?

 

[MegaManX]

How long as it been this way bruh?

2 years. Women get lazy as shyt. Funny thing is she always complaining about me not being affectionate. I be laughing at her like, "How about you act like you want some affection or simply ask."

Chicks always want you to be a mind reader.

 

[malbaker86]

2 years. Women get lazy as shyt. Funny thing is she always complaining about me not being affectionate. I be laughing at her like, "How about you act like you want some affection or simply ask."

Chicks always want you to be a mind reader.

Bruh.....i've been where you at and been through that too. I remember going through that too and hearing the same thing about the affectionate thing. It's hard to show affection when the type of affection that WE desire, you arent doing it.

 

[Miss Lucifer's Love]

I don't know about cheating necessarily, but relationships often become VERY strained after a baby is born. It's a combination of hormones and adapting to new norms that really fukk people up, and cheating is often a side effect of that.
A lot of the time, women devote every waking moment to the baby and the husband feels neglected. But the flip side of that is a woman is required to spend every waking moment caring for a baby and then is expected to "take care" of her husband as well.
Expectations have to change on both sides. If your wife passes out after putting the baby to bed instead of sucking your dikk like she said she would, let her rest. She needs it. If your husband wants his dikk sucked after the baby goes to bed, go ahead and give that jon't a good, loving sucking before you fall asleep. He needs it. Yes, these seem like contradictions, but everyone has to cater to each other.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

2 years. Women get lazy as shyt. Funny thing is she always complaining about me not being affectionate. I be laughing at her like, "How about you act like you want some affection or simply ask."

Chicks always want you to be a mind reader.

nikka what? how she supposed to do that breh...


"May I have some affection today please?"


"You know tuesday around the corner right? when you gon kiss a bytch?"





goddammit nikkano wonder bytches is chasin white boys and other females we in code red

 

[The Refiner]

Me and my husband are trying to have a baby, and I keep hearing horror stories from girls about how their baby fathers and husbands started having affairs before their child turned two.


I hear its common for men to start cheating after having a baby. Is this true?

You will never be happy or content until you learn to not let people's negative energy about relationships invade your relationship. I'm sure you've heard more negativity from these people.

Every relationship is different. I have a few questions for these girls who told you their horror stories. What did they explain to you about the cause of their husband's cheating? What were they preparing you for by telling you their horror stories? Sounds like they wanted to take you out of your happy place to me.

 

[MegaManX]

nikka what? how she supposed to do that breh...


"May I have some affection today please?"


"You know tuesday around the corner right? when you gon kiss a bytch?"





goddammit nikkano wonder bytches is chasin white boys and other females we in code red

cute

 

[KravenMorehead™]

cute

whatever muthafukka

 

[SheWantTheD]

I'm sure for alot of men it's hard for them to go from being your number one priority to being your number two.
Some choose to act out.

Same thing goes for women. The husband may stop giving the wife attention and focus solely on the baby or give the baby a lot more attention and a lot less attention than he does to his wife.

People get jealous and act out of spite or the relationship goes downhill. There needs to be a balance, but people also need to realize that you can't live your lives as you did prior to having a child, especially early on when the child is so young and needs a lot of attention.

 

[SheWantTheD]

like ever.

I am married. shyt is wack as fukk. No random shyt at all. No matter how much I talk about it. Nothing changes. In the end, I am too honorable to cheat.

I feel my personal level of success can be attributed in some value to her so I feel I should honor the pact.

Plus, my kids are fukking exceptional. Not risking that shyt.

You share your wife breh? There may be something wrong in the relationship as to why y'all aren't having sex as much as before. After pregnancy, the hormonal balance in your wife should go back to normal.

 

[SheWantTheD]

INot true breh.





My ex actually broke up with me when I got had 9 from her younger cousin





Why you nikkas think bytches care about a clean room. No 19 year old keeps a clean room unless he

That's the dumbest shyt I've ever read. Some people don't like living in garbage, plus I don't hoard things so I don't have a bunch of stuff in my room that I never use.

 

[Originalman]

Me and my husband are trying to have a baby, and I keep hearing horror stories from girls about how their baby fathers and husbands started having affairs before their child turned two.


I hear its common for men to start cheating after having a baby. Is this true?

Depends on the dude sista. If you got a dude that loves you and wants to be faithful you good.

I have known dudes who cheated on their wife even when she wasn't pregnant and i have known dudes who never cheated whether their old lady was pregnant or not.

Now for me I have never been a cheater. But also I loved my kids so outside working every moment of my kids early years I wanted to spend time with them. So running the street was never my thing. Also my wife is one of those work out sistas so even when she was pregnant she was working out. So when she had the kids especially my now 3 year or so she was back to shape in no time (also helped she breast fed so she lost all the baby weight fast).

Another thing my 3 year old was a mess from 0-2 years. I barely got any sleep dealing with her. So even if I wanted to stay in the streets wilding out I couldn't. My ass would have been in the club chasing women and falling asleep while trying to spit game......

 

[Elle Driver]

When you put it in perspective, it's things that can be worked on by communicating. If you're wife is too tired for sex, help her out, don't expect her to do it all and then some. shyt like that needs to be talked about instead of letting those feelings fester.