The very chicks that call you judgemental and paranoid for being too careful,
will be the exact same chicks clowning you saying you ignored the signs your girl was a hoe, when the girl cheats on you, divorces you, and has you paying crazy child support.
"You ignored the signs your girl was a hoe" no fakkit ass bytch, I saw traits and "didn't want to judge her"
So hey man, do the math
Trust what your gut is telling you about the world, is all I can say. Every single action i look back on as a mistake to this day, the one thing they ALL have in common is that I ignored my gut in the spirit of not being judgemental.