we don't get it either.They dumb. You see how much the guys here clown them when they wife some stripper or Thot?
That's why a lot of the guys also say here would smash but would not wife. I think in the end it comes down to faithfulness like
@Nemesis said.
It comes down to whether that persons using you or genuinely cares for you and loves you ( another reason they get clowned when it doesn't seem the case)..Men complain about that here all the time. Many women use men for material things and no guy wants to be that person. The moment you try he'll either play along smash then bounce or just bounce right away, or naively not see it and think youre a good person
and thats why people here clown them as simps
also its what type of values and goals that person has. In the end guys don't care if their wife is a Virgin during the honeymoon but they do care what her values are and if her sex life indicates poor values. just because she was with someone before you doesn't indicate poor values.
so in summary, men will avoid wifing women who seem unfaithful, want to use them, and have poor values. But they'll sleep with these women because they won't be around for these long term problems it'd present if you wifed them