Excusecel should be their name. Spend your whole life inside and on the internet and develop no social skills then wonder why you get no p*ssy Incel nerds.
In the end, it all comes down to the moment when you make a decision to change your life for the better. And I mean, legitimately wanting to change your life. Not the "I just watched a motivational video with the strings and piano playing in the background with some roided nikka yelling at me to stop being a bytch" inspiration either, but the "Man, life is short and I'm not getting any younger... Why don't I just live for myself and aspire to better myself because it'll be good for my mental, physical and emotional health?"
Problem is, that would require self-awareness... Something a lot of these guys pretend to have, but it's not fully there. Or if so, they've just resigned to a life of mediocrity and are essentially just waiting to die. It's sad, but that's how it goes.
Mentality is such a huge proponent with not just women but with life in general. It’s like seeing circus animals being tamed to do tricks. Massive elephants bend the knee to cacs because their minds don’t know any better.
A lot of men have that same weak and feeble mindset myself included a long time ago.
This is why I'm a believer in the Law of Attraction. Even if you don't believe in the woo-woo parts of it, I really love how it encourages you to make sure that you fix your mentality that you're carrying around in life. Everyone has circumstances that place them where they are, and some are much harder to escape than others. But if you're too stuck in a negative mentality and refuse to reach towards something much greater, you're already doomed. Your mentality and approach to life is everything, because it's what makes or breaks you.
Some people get a disease and die right at the diagnosis... They're just waiting to physically pass away at that point. Other people get diagnosed with something and refuse to let that be their reality, and make the most of it. Some even end up pulling off miracles.
Everything really begins and ends with your mind, because if your mind isn't right at all, it's Game Over until you're able to rectify that... If you're even aware enough and/or humble enough to be willing to do so.
That second dude said he's had more than 1000 rejections in real life, over 2000 online rejections
Damn this shyt is sad.. you'd think after rejection #198 he'd try to upgrade himself a little bit. Hit the gym, dress better, get a better haircut, try to grow a beard, improve his social skills, experience the world so he can expand his horizon.. Something.. :Mjwtf:
I think these dudes were babied too much as children and told that they deserved the world because they are great just the way they are.. they feel like they shouldn't have to "change who they are" in order to get women.. no, women should just settle for them..
They have a strong sense of entitlement.
It's all entitlement. I think it probably was their parents that didn't teach them how things really work, or they had smoke blown up their ass as a kid and are dealing with the repercussions of that now. Even then though, I don't want to put the blame on anyone else but the individuals themselves, because at some point, they have to take responsibility for where their life ends up. I completely agree with you, you really would think that after so many rejections, a lightbulb would go off, but no. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing multiple times and expecting different results, and there's a fine line between being persistent and being stubborn.
And I honestly think that if you're getting rejected at a whopping total of 3000 times (
) and you're not willing to do a single thing to improve yourself, that's just ego talking.
This is especially true in the nerd community as well. There's some baddies around that could tell you the exact make of Luke's Lightsaber, the type of fabric that they use for the Star Trek uniforms, make a cosplay from scratch with 100% accuracy and knows their way around a computer down to the BIOS settings on a desktop they built themselves, but that doesn't mean they're gonna date some nikka who's underachieving in every facet. And why would they? Like they're supposed to just accept somebody who's not doing the bare minimum but have "personality"...
It's arrogance, and chances are their personalities aren't award-winning anyway.
Once people learn to stop valuing sex so much, they'll be much better off. There's plenty of men who are in a situation right now over some p*ssy, so the grass isn't greener. Especially if you're desperate and are too reckless to see the warning signs. You're better off working on self-improvement and in turn, discovering self-love, because this certainly ain't the road to be on.
Upgrading your life/mentality = increases your opportunities to meet women. It’s hand in hand imo they go together. If you’re out here making moves and achieving your goals and have some success at the gym or work out other aspects in life, women will notice. These “incels” mentality literally is an invisibility cloak to women. They are absolutely un****able. Most of those dudes don’t have anything going for themselves.
