Brehs, whats the most you ever spent on a first date!!

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How so? Women like comfort and sometimes you just have spend.

In my case, we want to the beach, then decided to go clubbing afterwards. And in the process I coughed up a lot of money.

In the process of getting to know chicks, the first impression and comfort count a lot. That's the way I see it.

Not every woman is worthy of us providing comfort. Moreover, you can do plenty and have a great time with a girl for $50. You just have to be creative.

I'm not against spending money on a worthy woman. But it's stupid to rush in with your wallet on a first date with a girl you presumably know very little about (and whose ulterior motives you're unsure of) is asking for trouble.
 

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A business one...plus it's less hassle and heartbreak...

She'll pretend to like you...do all the freaky shyt you wanna do...all the emotional shyt you wanna do...and you get to have a girlfriend...for a few hours...

:yeshrug:

But is it worth it? Can she provide the emotional comfort and listening ears a normal chick you're in a relationship with would? Would she give you sex every time you need it, without the need to pay her? Etc.

You don't take chicks on a date because you want them to be your girlfriend for a few hours. You do it because you're watering your seeds and waiting to recoup when it's time to harvest. I look at it like paying for a test you need to better your life. If you pass it, it's going to put you in a better position to increase your earnings. But you fail, you try again. And no amount is too much to spend on a test.
 

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Not every woman is worthy of us providing comfort. Moreover, you can do plenty and have a great time with a girl for $50. You just have to be creative.

I'm not against spending money on a worthy woman. But it's stupid to rush in with your wallet on a first date with a girl you presumably know very little about (and whose ulterior motives you're unsure of) is asking for trouble.

I get you.

However, if end up finding yourself in a place where you have exhausted your limit and you have to keep spending because you're both enjoying each other's company, and she wants to spend more time with you - what are you going to do?
 

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I get you.

However, if end up finding yourself in a place where you have exhausted your limit and you have to keep spending because you're both enjoying each other's company, and she wants to spend more time with you - what are you going to do?

You can go for a walk. Or sit and talk on a bench while people-watching. Or go home and hook up. :yeshrug:

And I've noticed in my experience that when dates are going well and lasting for some time, usually the girl will offer to pay for drinks/meals,etc. to extend the date.
 

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You can go for a walk. Or sit and talk on a bench while people-watching. Or go home and hook up. :yeshrug:

And I've noticed in my experience that when dates are going well and lasting for some time, usually the girl will offer to pay for drinks/meals,etc. to extend the date.

But would you let her pay for drinks/meals on a first date, as a guy, especially when you're the one who asked her out on a date?
 

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But would you let her pay for drinks/meals on a first date, as a guy, especially when you're the one who asked her out on a date?

If she's offering and I've been paying the entire way up to the date, sure.

And many women will at least feel compelled to offer to pay if, for no other reason, than to feel like she's not being bought out.
 

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A business one...plus it's less hassle and heartbreak...

She'll pretend to like you...do all the freaky shyt you wanna do...all the emotional shyt you wanna do...and you get to have a girlfriend...for a few hours...

:yeshrug:

GFE gonna cost ya more :ufdup:
 

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If she's offering and I've been paying the entire way up to the date, sure.

And many women will at least feel compelled to offer to pay if, for no other reason, than to feel like she's not being bought out.

Personally, I won't. Maybe, I'm old school or I just believe you have to follow certain protocols to earn respect. But I won't. Definitely not on a first date.
 

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Bout 40-45,we went bowling,she was special:mjcry:.

I let her know my intentions for years,and she never wanted to go out questioning my intentions,thinking i only wanted one thing...eventually she gave in after peer pressure and said "maybe we should go out:jbhmm:"....i had to go all out brehs,picked her up in delta 88 withe the roof open,pants creased up and starched to the max:whoo:,sagging ever so gently:banderas:,went to applebees first,then the bowling alley,played some games at the arcade in the alley,had a nice lil kiss back when it was still pure kissing girls in the mouth.....that young love yall:mjcry:


Then i found out she was really serious about not giving the p*ssy up apparently:childplease:.


Never again:mjcry:
 

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$88 and you're complaining, breh. Probably close to $200 or more.

You ain't tricking yet.

If you want the best chicks, you can't put a limit on it. You've to spend a bit, at least to impressive her and show that you care and that you're not just about smashing.

There are some chicks who don't care about that but always make an effort. Put a budget on it won't get you the best chicks, unless you want to be stuck with hoodrats who want to watch Netflix and chill.

Sucker.
 
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