Brehs who date single moms are spineless simps

[QuintessentialBM]

These are kids Do you not have hearts

Most of you who grew up under a single mother household w

I actually think its one of the most nobel things to foster stepkids along with your kids and treat them both equal ly

My father's mother who was a single mom of 3 children was single because my bio-grandfather was a "Rolling Stone." She wasn't single very long and ended up marrying a military man from Waco, Tx , stationed at our local Army base who had 3 children from a spouse who died. My father told me(and I inferred from the stories he told) that the transition was hard. It eventually smoothed out, but they didn't like their step-father at first, but they didn't have a choice either. This was the 60's.

This ain't the 60's anymore! The people (women, especially) are different!

Not that I needed him to tell me, but my father told me to "NEVER DATE A SINGLE MOTHER!"

My father also told me "LIFE AIN'T FAIR!"

ETA: I guess I'm supporting the OP's narrative, but I constructed a better argument with less ad hominems and generalizations.

 

[Marco Zen]

No self respecting man would ever be enough of a simp to raise another man's seed.

 

[Gold]

Not every man is cut out to raise another man's seed... (not every man is cut out to raise children period but that's another topic)
If you cant, do the mother, the child, and yourself a favor and remove yourself from that possibility.

But don't shyt on those people who are about that life.

I wont front, I cannot be that man. I will never see that child the same way I see my biological children, and I will always play favorites with my biological children.

Since I know myself, I wont get myself involved in that.

But I salute the brehs who can

 

[Gold]

Dating and raising another man's seed are 2 different things

Well... when grown people date... they usually do it with the intention of getting together longterm though.

Seems kind of pointless to date a SM if the kids are a dealbreaker.

 

[newworldafro]

Well... when grown people date... they usually do it with the intention of getting together longterm though.

Seems kind of pointless to date a SM if the kids are a dealbreaker.

...you need to switch that adverb "usually" to "sometimes"

 

[Gold]

...you need to switch that adverb "usually" to "sometimes"

U right

 

[QuintessentialBM]

...you need to switch that adverb "usually" to "sometimes"

especially in this day in age....

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Today I'm getting the A/C in my car fixed

 

[PAWG connoisseur]

bumped

 

[Ikwa]

nikka somebody gotta raise em

Not me fakkit

 

[@OffHalsted]

Not me fakkit

yeah u....give em guidance


I believe the children are our are future
Teach them well and let them lead the way

 

[K.Dot]

I wonder if this behavior is the result of having (consciously or sub consciously ) disdain for your mother. I remember when I had problems with moms, it definitely had a negative impact on how I viewed and treated women.

I dont get the hate of single mothers. What did they do to you?

Let them find happiness.

What is the obsession some of y'all have with single mothers?

Because they were raised by one and it probably wasn't a very pleasant experience. So they take it out on other Women because its taboo to criticize the mother.

 

[Paradise50]

if it's just one kid then it's not a big issue....now if it's multiple young kids then

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

Most men who date these women have little to no options anyway

It would be beneath me to raise children that aren't mine. Suckers get involved in that type of nonsense.