Brehs with kids, how do y'all do it?

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My son is 14 months. He has a great personality and smile. Really handsome kid. Looks like me but has his mom complexion and hair. I had to tell his mom and aunt to chill with the braids :whoa:let him rock the afro, because 9 out of 10 times they confuse him for a girl. He is around me and has been around me for 90% of his existence, since I work from home and the wife went back to work after month 3. I am very grateful that I have this setup where I can be around him at all times, so I can properly raise him the best I can.
I take him out 4x a week, let him interact with other kids, kids zone etc.


With all that being said, I don't want another child until I reach another financial tier.


And

I never met my pops brehs:sadbron:

So for the sake of my childhood, I remember times where I could of needed that fatherly assistance and that alone make me enjoy being a parent who's capable of providing that.
 

Marlostanfield.

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I'm an old soul I leave having children to the young souls.

I don't even know how to change diapers or make a bottle. I never liked the idea of having kids, I don't like nothing dependent on me or up in my face.
 

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Work be kicking my ass and the only thing I wanna do when I come home is smoke a joint and go to sleep.

To think that y'all will be working hard all day then come home to some goofy lil nikka that looks like you screaming and whining about bullshyt.

I swear I would punch him in his chest as soon as I got home. How do y'all do it?

1. You sound and come across as a young breh who is still selfish.

2. It takes a REAL MAN to raise a child or children.

3. When you are in a marriage where both individuals are MATURE and have moved past the stage where they believe the world revolves around them you’ll gain a new perspective on life.

4. It’s amazing to me how so many people say they don’t want kids but don’t hesitate to have butt booty naked sex.

5. Whenever you have sex the possibility of pregnancy exists unless the woman no longer has a uterus or the man is sterile.

6. Both my wife and I have good jobs and make good money. Our schedules coincide so we don’t need daycare and our child gets to stay at home.

We never considered daycare because anytime you put your child into the hands of a stranger no matter how highly rated that daycare, friend, etc is you put your child at risk, especially if they are unable to talk yet to explain if they are being abused.

7. Like I said from jump, being a father is one of the ultimate tests of manhood. So all the immature brehs who can’t fathom being a dad it’s cool LET THE REAL MEAN WHO AREN’T COWARDS AND CAN HANDLE TAKING CARE AFTER IMPREGNATING A WOMAN HOLD THE CROWN :blessed:

Let this thread be a word of wisdom to the brehetts who are opening your legs for a breh who has a slick mouth piece but in reality he’s a chump cause after laying down to slang dikk he can’t get back up and handle real responsibilities if you get pregnant.

Y’all wonder why we have so many single parent fatherless homes. Females get duped after getting they backs blown out then want us real men to be the father figures the coward nakka they laid with won’t be.
 

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Work be kicking my ass and the only thing I wanna do when I come home is smoke a joint and go to sleep.

To think that y'all will be working hard all day then come home to some goofy lil nikka that looks like you screaming and whining about bullshyt.

I swear I would punch him in his chest as soon as I got home. How do y'all do it?
I usually sleep at work so I'm ready when I get
 

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1. You sound and come across as a young breh who is still selfish.

2. It takes a REAL MAN to raise a child or children.

3. When you are in a marriage where both individuals are MATURE and have moved past the stage where they believe the world revolves around them you’ll gain a new perspective on life.

4. It’s amazing to me how so many people say they don’t want kids but don’t hesitate to have butt booty naked sex.

5. Whenever you have sex the possibility of pregnancy exists unless the woman no longer has a uterus or the man is sterile.

6. Both my wife and I have good jobs and make good money. Our schedules coincide so we don’t need daycare and our child gets to stay at home.

We never considered daycare because anytime you put your child into the hands of a stranger no matter how highly rated that daycare, friend, etc is you put your child at risk, especially if they are unable to talk yet to explain if they are being abused.

7. Like I said from jump, being a father is one of the ultimate tests of manhood. So all the immature brehs who can’t fathom being a dad it’s cool LET THE REAL MEAN WHO AREN’T COWARDS AND CAN HANDLE TAKING CARE AFTER IMPREGNATING A WOMAN HOLD THE CROWN :blessed:

Let this thread be a word of wisdom to the brehetts who are opening your legs for a breh who has a slick mouth piece but in reality he’s a chump cause after laying down to slang dikk he can’t get back up and handle real responsibilities if you get pregnant.

Y’all wonder why we have so many single parent fatherless homes. Females get duped after getting they backs blown out then want us real men to be the father figures the coward nakka they laid with won’t be.
I ain't read non of this shyt nikka but that's what's up
 

Marlostanfield.

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1. You sound and come across as a young breh who is still selfish.

2. It takes a REAL MAN to raise a child or children.

3. When you are in a marriage where both individuals are MATURE and have moved past the stage where they believe the world revolves around them you’ll gain a new perspective on life.

4. It’s amazing to me how so many people say they don’t want kids but don’t hesitate to have butt booty naked sex.

5. Whenever you have sex the possibility of pregnancy exists unless the woman no longer has a uterus or the man is sterile.

6. Both my wife and I have good jobs and make good money. Our schedules coincide so we don’t need daycare and our child gets to stay at home.

We never considered daycare because anytime you put your child into the hands of a stranger no matter how highly rated that daycare, friend, etc is you put your child at risk, especially if they are unable to talk yet to explain if they are being abused.

7. Like I said from jump, being a father is one of the ultimate tests of manhood. So all the immature brehs who can’t fathom being a dad it’s cool LET THE REAL MEAN WHO AREN’T COWARDS AND CAN HANDLE TAKING CARE AFTER IMPREGNATING A WOMAN HOLD THE CROWN :blessed:

Let this thread be a word of wisdom to the brehetts who are opening your legs for a breh who has a slick mouth piece but in reality he’s a chump cause after laying down to slang dikk he can’t get back up and handle real responsibilities if you get pregnant.

Y’all wonder why we have so many single parent fatherless homes. Females get duped after getting they backs blown out then want us real men to be the father figures the coward nakka they laid with won’t be.

You can be a real man according to you and still fail your kids, how? Because you can make them a slave to this world just like you, so you still failed.
 

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Kids are wonderful when they're clean and well behaved :ahh:
They start to act up and its right back to they Mama :ahh:
 

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I feel like I barely have enough free time now, I couldn’t imagine having to go to school functions, sports practices, etc at this stage in my life while I’m still trying to develop myself.
 

Lamar Givens

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You can be a real man according to you and still fail your kids, how? Because you can make them a slave to this world just like you, so you still failed.

Explain your assertion because I’m not following your slave statement and it sounds suspect :patrice:
 
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