My husband and I are having more sex now than we did when we were dating (we didn't live together). I guess for most people it declines, but we're both in our 30s, no kids, high sex drives, so we get it in almost everyday, at least once (sometimes 2-3 times if the mood strikes us, and it often does).
Brehs...With wives or live-in girlfriends...how often. do you have sex?
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sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
3-5 now
but honestly I think its because of her BC. she got off for a month and the first couple days we fukked like 4 times both days. then we basically smashed once a day for the first week and a half then at least every other day. It was too the point where I had to tell her chill(thats never good)
but honestly I think its because of her BC. she got off for a month and the first couple days we fukked like 4 times both days. then we basically smashed once a day for the first week and a half then at least every other day. It was too the point where I had to tell her chill(thats never good)
s3ven_LvLs
All Star
Breh you got the wrong mindset right now
You need to go to other places or something nikka.
Snap out of it. Got me over like
"Know yourself, know your worth nikka"
BlvdBrawler
Superstar
Breh you got the wrong mindset right now
You need to go to other places or something nikka.
Snap out of it. Got me over like
"Know yourself, know your worth nikka"
Nah, it's not that.
I know what you're saying, trust me.
I struggled with the breakup, greatly.
All those threads with "lists" that ya'll put together of what a woman has to be in order to be wifey, she destroyed every single one of those lists.
She was pretty.
She was loyal.
She was smart.
She had a very strong relationship with her father.
She was loyal (I list this twice because above all, she lived for me).
She had a fat ass and a small waist.
No kids.
No ex's (she'd only fukked I think 2 dudes before me).
No abortions.
She cooked.
She didn't club.
She didn't have any social media accts.
She cleaned (not as much as I'd like, but I'm kind of a mess too so it was
).She was educated (she was an attorney).
Etc... etc... etc.. ad nauseum.
You name it, she had it. The only two knocks on her were that she was ok sitting around all weekend watching TV, and she didn't know how to budget.
I just met her too early in life and didn't get my 'adventurous phase' out of the way before spending 10 years together.
And now I know that if I were to spend another 10 years with her, I'd feel like I missed out on things.
Part of me is hoping she'll still be there when I'm done doing what I should have done in my 20's, but I know she won't.
s3ven_LvLs
All Star
Nah, it's not that.
I know what you're saying, trust me.
I struggled with the breakup, greatly.
All those threads with "lists" that ya'll put together of what a woman has to be in order to be wifey, she destroyed every single one of those lists.
She was pretty.
She was loyal.
She was smart.
She had a very strong relationship with her father.
She was loyal (I list this twice because above all, she lived for me).
She had a fat ass and a small waist.
No kids.
No ex's (she'd only fukked I think 2 dudes before me).
No abortions.
She cooked.
She didn't club.
She didn't have any social media accts.
She cleaned (not as much as I'd like, but I'm kind of a mess too so it was
She was educated (she was an attorney).
Etc... etc... etc.. ad nauseum.
You name it, she had it. The only two knocks on her were that she was ok sitting around all weekend watching TV, and she didn't know how to budget.
I just met her too early in life and didn't get my 'adventurous phase' out of the way before spending 10 years together.
And now I know that if I were to spend another 10 years with her, I'd feel like I missed out on things.
Part of me is hoping she'll still be there when I'm done doing what I should have done in my 20's, but I know she won't.
Those two are big for me. But
Yeah man I feel you on that though we all take losses but you gotta try and not let others be responsible for your happiness. At the end of the day there is somebody out there that is on that level or even better but you gotta get out there (increase your odds) of coming across another like that and enjoy yourself.
There are others nikka you gotta believe. its 3.2 billion on this earth and the MAJORITY is WOMEN. Always gotta keep that in mind.
Perpetual Beast
Beast Mode Always On
I know these scrubs only be smangin prolly like 2-3....a smooth community college brotha such as myself? Im smashin 5 times a week at minimum! 
yeahhhhhh....that long time gf sex...the same vagina...all the time.....nothing else...
....yall will have to excuse me for a sec 
yeahhhhhh....that long time gf sex...the same vagina...all the time.....nothing else.......yall will have to excuse me for a sec 
Klyk21
Hate is Rising, Love is Dying....
You dont live in FL do you?When you live with your significant partner and the "hunny moon phase" wears off you ain't fukkin like you used to
The first 8-12 months my ex and I dated we were goin to town. Sometimes we'd have days on the weekend where all we'd do is just bum around, playing video games and fukkiNG a lot. we usually spent the weekend together and stayed at one another's place..Friday nights, Sat and leave Sunday afternoon and hang out once or twice for a couple hours during the week (we both were working in factories 10 hours a day and he lived 45 mins away)..anyways we'd be getting busy when we were together
But as time went on and when he moved in with me, we were fukkin like 2-3 times a week.. If that
StickStickly
Superstar
how long do you think it's going to take to get it out of your system?Nah, it's not that.
I know what you're saying, trust me.
I struggled with the breakup, greatly.
All those threads with "lists" that ya'll put together of what a woman has to be in order to be wifey, she destroyed every single one of those lists.
She was pretty.
She was loyal.
She was smart.
She had a very strong relationship with her father.
She was loyal (I list this twice because above all, she lived for me).
She had a fat ass and a small waist.
No kids.
No ex's (she'd only fukked I think 2 dudes before me).
No abortions.
She cooked.
She didn't club.
She didn't have any social media accts.
She cleaned (not as much as I'd like, but I'm kind of a mess too so it was
She was educated (she was an attorney).
Etc... etc... etc.. ad nauseum.
You name it, she had it. The only two knocks on her were that she was ok sitting around all weekend watching TV, and she didn't know how to budget.
I just met her too early in life and didn't get my 'adventurous phase' out of the way before spending 10 years together.
And now I know that if I were to spend another 10 years with her, I'd feel like I missed out on things.
Part of me is hoping she'll still be there when I'm done doing what I should have done in my 20's, but I know she won't.
You dont live in FL do you?
no..
BlvdBrawler
Superstar
I don't know if it's a matter of that.
Honestly I feel worse about breaking her heart than I do about my own loss.
I love the girl, I just had regrets.
Breh I feel ya. I'm in a similar situation but not to the same extent.
I met my wife when I was still trying to do my thing, and to be completely honest I wasn't ready to settle down. I loved her but I still wanted to do my thing. I decided I should keep her because she is a great woman and have a lot of things going for herself and that is more important that smashing random chicks. I do wish I got it all out of my system before I settled down though.
Me and my wife are both crazy busy. Sometimes we can have sex 4 times a week, other times its only twice a week or even once depending on how crazy the schedule gets. I actually think we will have more sex in a few years when we have more time. Working full time and getting a masters degree at the same times sucks.