Brehs…Would you text a guy/girl back that left you on read for five days? 🤔

[OnlyOneBoss]

Nah I actually have a rule cause I used to be a loser when it came to women


Anything over two business days or 3 days including weekend and you’re done tbh


I’m an adult so I understand how busy life gets but if you leave me on read for 2/3 days you really don’t give a fukk either about me or what I’m saying so we probably won’t vibe fr so


And not even on some “I got it like that” type shyt but there ARE other beautiful smart talented head-on-straight women who would love to talk to a nikka like me but you tryna make me wait damn near a week on read for YOU?

 

[old pig]

depends on how long I’ve known her…also depends on what the text was

 

[MikelArteta]

Average person looks at their phone all throughout the day. Doesn't matter if they are a brain surgeon or a homeless person on the street.

I remember going out with this chick and she was there getting messages and replying and ish but then I remember wheneber I would message her like hours later I'd get a reply

That was the end of that

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Average person looks at their phone all throughout the day. Doesn't matter if they are a brain surgeon or a homeless person on the street.

I remember going out with this chick and she was there getting messages and replying and ish but then I remember wheneber I would message her like hours later I'd get a reply

That was the end of that

Because you weren't a priority but again it takes two seconds to text so I don't really care. It all depends. Like I said, some women break up with their man like 3-4 times before it's actually over. Then they start hittin u up like crazy. If she's someone that I WANT to smash I'll let her come back around why the fukk not, it don't hurt me none. I just probably won't take her serious

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Armed with all the knowledge of how bytches be movin and brehs is still asking these types of questions

 

[KBtheKey]

Yea, but I would typically friend zone women initially anyway so we might both get left on read every now and then. I don't expect anyone not very close to me to put anything on hold for me, Kuz i prolly wouldn't for them

 

[RamsayBolton]

Yes

pretty women have pretty friends

 

[Crude]

No, I’m not chasing anyone and that lack of consistent communication tells you a lot non-verbally, it’s up to you to catch the hint.

Trust me I know how females interact with their phones, no one is going days and days or even beyond a few hours without checking their messages and notifications. She saw your message, it just wasn’t a priority for her to respond.

As a man you got two choices you either turn that temperature down on your pursuit or you cut your losses and move on. Don’t let these birds give you anxiety, go pour your energy into someone whose going to reciprocate.

 

[Crude]

Also agree with the breh that said keep a rotation, it keeps you from getting to attached and sweating one woman to hard.

When one starts acting flakey you just move on to the next option in your rotation.

A lot of the time these women be entertaining other options too and they find another guy they are feeling a little more than you and they start falling back and giving who they really want their attention then.

Don’t fight it, don’t get emotional, just fall back and leave her alone.

 

[Vandelay]

Text back, possibly. But I'm not treating her with any kind of seriousness.

Texting is the most effortless form of communication and you can't fix your fingers to type 3-4 words.

 

[Sad Bunny]

8 days later I would. I'm petty as hell.

My friend is SICK. He thought he found the one but she isn’t

 

[TheNig]

Keep it real

No.

Hell... If I call and she don't call back, she's probably never getting another call from me again.

 

[African Peasant]

A guy? It depends how close we're. A friend, I'll text back.

A woman? I'll text after 10 days.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

My only rule is "my turn, your turn" pretty much and that's not even so much of a rule as it's common sense.

There's one chick that's at the bottom of my rotation, I wouldn't even say she's in the rotation she's just there in my contacts, we don't live that close to each other and I leave her there because she's got a pretty face and big ass titties, that's the only reason I am bothering with her. Maybe if I got to know her there would be other reasons but that's not the point.

She has not really texted back right away and I have never texted her back right away. I'm not stressed. The only thing I've done is see to it that I don't double text cause fukk a double text.

Now, when she does text, it's a wall of text. She'll text like 5 paragraphs and it's mostly just trying to get to know me. So what's she doin? Who the fukk knows and frankly, who cares. Let her do whatever. I text back when I feel like it.

I can obviously tell she got other shyt goin on maybe she got a boyfriend or a ex that's still around, again who cares. If she ends up not wantin to do shyt then I'll dismiss her and move on

Y'all put too much thought into "I'm not her #1 option! " motherfukker, who cares. Are you wifing her or just fukkin or wantin to fukk?

 

[IWasntMadeToPlayTheSon]

I text idk no shame in my game. If you want her go get her is my motto. I like a chase…probably why I watch animals in the wild shyt all the time