Brehs yall remember my ex who took my gifts? she just messages me on facebook..

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I don't know how much of a G you are, but I say fukk her, get her hopes up...then burn her entire world down. :fire: :evil:

...Play along and make sure she's happy and invested...then write a scathing message telling her that she isn't shyt, she never was shyt, and that if she died the next day, no one would miss her because no one loves her pathetic ass. Then BLOCK her (not delete, BLOCK) :win:


OR

Just ignore and keep it moving, plair. Never helps to hustle backward. Don't get bitter, get better...and so on. :heh:
 

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Don't ever mess with a girl named kiesha. You already lost once, you really wanna lose again? :usure:
 

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i'd take her back but not with the same title she had before. meaning if she was your girl before, then left you and came back, i'd take her back as a smut. treat her a little bit like shyt. but never explain why you're not like before. fukk her like a little hoe that has been passed around (she probably has anyway). if she asks you how you feel about her, tell her she's cool (very nonchalantly). Don't elaborate, even if she asks. and keep treating her like a groupie hoe even if she threatens to leave (she won't). but don't go overboard. you have to go gradual as far as treating her like shyt.

but again, don't give her the title even if she fukks other dudes and even if she says she's unhappy. and no simping, no gifts.

follow this plan and you will retrain her to respect you/eat from your hand. cause that girl needs to be retrained on how to act with you. but even during all that, get some other puss and don't ever take her back. be a little discrete about other girls but don't even lie/go out of your way to hide the fact you're fukking other girls. make her run errands for you, give her stuff to do for you. If you don't think you have the heart for this life, just ignore her facebook message cause if you start talking to her again and you still act based on your feelings for her, she'll have you under her thumb and do exactly like Kev said, use you for an emotional boost until she gets over the fact that the guy she left you for rejected her.
 

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i'd take her back but not with the same title she had before. meaning if she was your girl before, then left you and came back, i'd take her back as a smut. treat her a little bit like shyt. but never explain why you're not like before. fukk her like a little hoe that has been passed around (she probably has anyway). if she asks you how you feel about her, tell her she's cool (very nonchalantly). Don't elaborate, even if she asks. and keep treating her like a groupie hoe even if she threatens to leave (she won't). but don't go overboard. you have to go gradual as far as treating her like shyt.

but again, don't give her the title even if she fukks other dudes and even if she says she's unhappy. and no simping, no gifts.

follow this plan and you will retrain her to respect you/eat from your hand. cause that girl needs to be retrained on how to act with you. but even during all that, get some other puss and don't ever take her back. be a little discrete about other girls but don't even lie/go out of your way to hide the fact you're fukking other girls. make her run errands for you, give her stuff to do for you. If you don't think you have the heart for this life, just ignore her facebook message cause if you start talking to her again and you still act based on your feelings for her, she'll have you under her thumb and do exactly like Kev said, use you for an emotional boost until she gets over the fact that the guy she left you for rejected her.

This is my problem bruh, I can be rude but I always go overboard with it :damn:

And the dude she left me with was her ex, she told me some lies about him(her family hated him, but in reality they loved him). He took ha v card dis year they broke up. Me n her start talking again in like April(we actually first talked way bacc when i was a sophomore in HS but she stopped talking to me cuz i was athiest). We started talking again and started datin. I went bacc to cali and vegas a lil bit after i graduated and she was like :usure:

Came bacc she all like zay u done changed all dat, which led to the story in the thread I posted in the OP. She got bacc with that ex this summer and i guess they just broke up again, he prolly fucced her again and left :manny:

She did buy me a very nice snapback tho and some cool headphones :manny:
 

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This is my problem bruh, I can be rude but I always go overboard with it :damn:

And the dude she left me with was her ex, she told me some lies about him(her family hated him, but in reality they loved him). He took ha v card dis year they broke up. Me n her start talking again in like April(we actually first talked way bacc when i was a sophomore in HS but she stopped talking to me cuz i was athiest). We started talking again and started datin. I went bacc to cali and vegas a lil bit after i graduated and she was like :usure:

Came bacc she all like zay u done changed all dat, which led to the story in the thread I posted in the OP. She got bacc with that ex this summer and i guess they just broke up again, he prolly fucced her again and left :manny:

She did buy me a very nice snapback tho and some cool headphones :manny:
yup, it all adds up. she got dumped and now ran back to you so you could give her some self-esteem.

the problem with being a super-a$$hole to her is that it shows her you have strong feelings. doesn't matter if it's love or hate, she just wants to have the power to evoke strong emotion in you. When i said treat her a little bit like shyt, i mean more like be emotionally distant from her. don't open up to her. don't show her what you care about. Be non-chalant. That's why i said treat her like any other hoe you'd be fukking but not even maliciously. It's something that's hard to fake. Cause you have to truly not give a fukk. This is not about revenge. This is about re-conditioning her mind to look up to you. Why would she look up to you if she could evoke strong feelings and reactions from just by snapping her fingers?

like i said, you fukk her rough and treat her like a true whore while you're fukking her and then outside of that treat her nonchalantly. ask her to do stuff for you and if she says no you just say "cool..." never show emotion and you'll be like a puzzle she's trying to solve. she won't understand why you're cool with her and treat her slightly like you don't care about her at the same time. so she can't get control so her next move is to focus all her energy on you. this makes her invest more feelings on you and then you have her hooked like a dopefiend.


the explanation might seem complicated but it doesn't really matter why it works. the important thing is that it works out that way most of the time. Just don't be an a$$hole for the sake of being an a$$hole. it's all about your state of mind. you have to truly not give a fukk if she stops seeing you and treat her like a regular hoe you want to fukk but don't care that much if you don't. once you get to that state of mind, your actions will be calibrated perfectly to her. You won't be too much of a jerk and you won't be too soft either. just right.
 

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Tell her to meet up with you at a nice restaurant far away from her crib, and don't show, you are obviously looking for us to talk you out of a decision you probably already made, so you need to do some fukk shyt, to reaffirm some "hand" in this situation

If she truly likes you and don't see you as a simp she'll stay in touch with you
 

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i'd take her back but not with the same title she had before. meaning if she was your girl before, then left you and came back, i'd take her back as a smut. treat her a little bit like shyt. but never explain why you're not like before. fukk her like a little hoe that has been passed around (she probably has anyway). if she asks you how you feel about her, tell her she's cool (very nonchalantly). Don't elaborate, even if she asks. and keep treating her like a groupie hoe even if she threatens to leave (she won't). but don't go overboard. you have to go gradual as far as treating her like shyt.

but again, don't give her the title even if she fukks other dudes and even if she says she's unhappy. and no simping, no gifts.

follow this plan and you will retrain her to respect you/eat from your hand. cause that girl needs to be retrained on how to act with you. but even during all that, get some other puss and don't ever take her back. be a little discrete about other girls but don't even lie/go out of your way to hide the fact you're fukking other girls. make her run errands for you, give her stuff to do for you. If you don't think you have the heart for this life, just ignore her facebook message cause if you start talking to her again and you still act based on your feelings for her, she'll have you under her thumb and do exactly like Kev said, use you for an emotional boost until she gets over the fact that the guy she left you for rejected her.

yup, it all adds up. she got dumped and now ran back to you so you could give her some self-esteem.

the problem with being a super-a$$hole to her is that it shows her you have strong feelings. doesn't matter if it's love or hate, she just wants to have the power to evoke strong emotion in you. When i said treat her a little bit like shyt, i mean more like be emotionally distant from her. don't open up to her. don't show her what you care about. Be non-chalant. That's why i said treat her like any other hoe you'd be fukking but not even maliciously. It's something that's hard to fake. Cause you have to truly not give a fukk. This is not about revenge. This is about re-conditioning her mind to look up to you. Why would she look up to you if she could evoke strong feelings and reactions from just by snapping her fingers?

like i said, you fukk her rough and treat her like a true whore while you're fukking her and then outside of that treat her nonchalantly. ask her to do stuff for you and if she says no you just say "cool..." never show emotion and you'll be like a puzzle she's trying to solve. she won't understand why you're cool with her and treat her slightly like you don't care about her at the same time. so she can't get control so her next move is to focus all her energy on you. this makes her invest more feelings on you and then you have her hooked like a dopefiend.


the explanation might seem complicated but it doesn't really matter why it works. the important thing is that it works out that way most of the time. Just don't be an a$$hole for the sake of being an a$$hole. it's all about your state of mind. you have to truly not give a fukk if she stops seeing you and treat her like a regular hoe you want to fukk but don't care that much if you don't. once you get to that state of mind, your actions will be calibrated perfectly to her. You won't be too much of a jerk and you won't be too soft either. just right.
Way too much text for a hoe named Kieshia. Disgusting.

Of course Zay's dumb, b!tch ass is entertaining this sh!t and completely avoiding the good advice that says stay the fvck away. What a fvcking bonehead.

:snoop:
 

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she done mopped up and sopped up her lil biscuit daddy and he threw her to the curb after doing what he had to do.... now she's coming back your way to get some nice emotional rest and rejuvenation. we might have to call you la quinta if you take her back

:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
 

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listen man, if u have feelings for thsi girl, i suggest you fucck her, get all ur aggression out...but make sure u use a condom. and if u really wanna get back at her, just get her to give u a blow job...so she does all the work to make u get off. then u do this multiple times to her till u think u've got enough of ur revenge. then bounce. oor keep her on the sidelines as just one of the chicks on your team.

no one here with common sense will argue against the fact that u should NEVER give a woman who leaves u for someone else a second chance. this should be common sense. and when i say second chance, i mean the chance for her to reclaim the title of being "your girl". once a woman leaves a relationship to go fucck or sexually deal with other men, she ruins ANY chance of being with the person she left (that's if of course the person is a man of dignity). that should be your principle in life.

so in short, play like u forgive her. have her come over to u...do with her as u please, BUT BUT BUT DO NOT ALLOW HER TO HAVE AN EASY TRANSITION BACK INTO YOUR LIFE AS YOUR GIRL!

if u go out with her, be utterly disrespectful. talk to other women in front of her (this will be easy considering women will naturally gravitate to you anyways when they see another woman with you). when she does anything that irritates you, blow up on her. embarrass her. i mean, a carefully executed revenge in my opinion, is the best way to purge your heart of hatred and anger.

use this opportunity wisely my friend.
 

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Don't even know WHY y'all wasting time giving bruh this advice; he's clearly NOT going to listen :laugh:

Like everybody else said, leave her alone or smut her out....only if you about that life tho
 

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She just sent me a friend request and I accepted it

:pachaha: @ these statuses she made, that nikka did her dirty :damn:
 
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