Broke up with wifey because she wanted to search my phone

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You didn't really break up with her, did you?

I mean not that you didn't have a point...just...I'm pretty sure yall gonna be f*ckin in 3 days anyway...
 

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The problem is, she knew that before she got with him, they created a bond of trust together, had a child together, and now she's acting like she just learned skeets was a ho.

I don't know... something tells me she just learned some new info that is making her go :hmm:... you see skeets being mega quiet...
 

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We are your partners.... not police....

we should already be dwelling well within those boundaries.... there should be no invasion.... if I have your child, I know what every spot and hair on your body looks like... I should know all of your friends and family, and they should know me...

I should know how regular your bowel movements are and what you need when they aren't regular...

If you are comfortable with me knowing all of that.... why so serious about the phone?
because i need my space. i need to not feel like i'm constantly being watched. just thinking about this is sufficating. if you know me so well and chose to have a child with me, after all this time, why do you even need to see my phone? if you don't trust me all of a sudden, be gone and let me be.
 

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You don't say? :patrice:
:yeshrug: men can easily leave a relationship that no longer advantages them. A woman tends to feel attached really quickly. It takes more mental fortitude for a woman to turn her back than a man. I am training myself to be that way and I suggest more women do the same.
 

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:yeshrug: men can easily leave a relationship that no longer advantages. A woman tends to feel attached really quickly. It takes more mentak fortitude for a woman to turn her back than a man. I am training myself to be that way and I suggest mire women do the same.
Training to what?
 

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You don't say? :patrice:
What % do you invest? :sas1:
You increase you trust as you see the relationship go somewhere permanent. It depends, a boyfriend can range from 0 to 50%. A husband, 75 to 90%.
 

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because i need my space. i need to not feel like i'm constantly being watched. just thinking about this is sufficating. if you know me so well and chose to have a child with me, after all this time, why do you even need to see my phone? if you don't trust me all of a sudden, be gone and let me be.

You sound like you scared to fully commit.... its a phone.... no biggie right... it's just a phone...

sounds like you are very selfish.... it's all about what you need... what if this is the 1 thing that your partner needs to trust again.... you still would want her gone?
 

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:yeshrug: men can easily leave a relationship that no longer advantages them. A woman tends to feel attached really quickly. It takes more mental fortitude for a woman to turn her back than a man. I am training myself to be that way and I suggest more women do the same.

Assuming men don't have emotions and women don't emotionally check out of relationships long before they end.
 

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You increase you trust as you see the relationship go somewhere permanent. It depends, a boyfriend can range from 0 to 50%. A husband, 75 to 90%.

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Assuming men don't have emotions and women don't emotionally check out of relationships long before they end.
Never said men have no emotions or implied it. I did say attachment is more common in women than men.
 
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