Broke up with wifey because she wanted to search my phone

[Yup]

The fact that I know that there is another girl is enough for me to throw her in the bushes


After The lack of chase is dead I get bored

you like the thrill of the chase. You might eventually get over that and prefer stability or you may never.

 

[Theraflu]

This is ridiculous.

People in relationships should be able to check their investments women included.

Also I can tell you're in one of those dysfunctional ratchet relationships. Even if you disagreed with her breaking up with her is dumb, just sit her down and communicate why you are uncomfortable with him this, explain your side and let her explain hers.

Also reassure her, if this is unusual behaviour from her and you've been together a while maybe she's insecure, reassure her that she has nothing to worry about etc etc. A woman doesn't start acting like this out of the blue so TALK to them.

I hate these ratchet relationship tales y'all will probably be fukking again tonight...

 

[Theraflu]

i agree with not trusting anyone 100%. but that doesn't mean i should consent to people looking at my phone. Any woman who i'm with will have to either deal with it or she'll be forbidden to me.

If you've been in a long term relationship for a long time i.e not a girlfriend but your WIFE or long term baby mama if she randomly wants to see what's in your phone and it's unusual behaviour from her, communication is needed.

Your advice isn't realistic.

 

[Mowgli]

... I'm back.

I had nothing to hide but I would never go through her phone and didn't appreciate her request to go thru my phone. She handed me her phone like "here!" but I didn't ask for her phone. I don't even have a lock on my phone so I don't know why she came at me like that. All this happened right after sex and during our pillow talk where I was asking her what makes her happy

You were lookin for a reason stop it. Because she wanted to go through your phone? nikka was like damn shes onto me.. A woman, suspicious of a habitual man whore, yea, shes not a keeper.

Welp, now your child, can be raised by the world.

Welcome to oblivion.

 

[Turbulent]

If you've been in a long term relationship for a long time i.e not a girlfriend but your WIFE or long term baby mama if she randomly wants to see what's in your phone and it's unusual behaviour from her, communication is needed.

Your advice isn't realistic.

read my other posts. i said the exact same thing.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

you like the thrill of the chase. You might eventually get over that and prefer stability or you may never.

I'm really big on the #GMB movement

 

[Yup]

I'm really big on the #GMB movement

Which is?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Which is?

Get married brehs

 

[GhettoTeK]

It would make her feel stupid and worthless just some type of way

 

[RAX 010]

I salute OP for doing what you had to do
That must have been difficult but it comes down to principalities
You never know she may come back with a greater respect for your convictions

 

[EndDomination]

if dude needs some level of privacy, i don't see anything wrong with him not wanting to share info on the phone. doesn't mean the person is cheating. what if a friend shared something in confidence by text and you let your girl read it? it's not just about your privacy but also the privacy of others.

That's actually exactly what it means when someone won't look at your phone
Remember in 8th grade, you would ask your friend to use the web browser on their phone and you could see them panic
Same thing applies here, ol dude probably had mad nudes from other girls on his phone

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

back to adding to your excel spreadsheets

 

[Banned Account12]

Nobody touches my phone. Nobody.

this

 

[KOOL-AID]

Stupid thinking.

is dat ur daughter in yo avi

 

[Yup]

is dat ur daughter in yo avi

That's me.