Broke up with wifey because she wanted to search my phone

[EndDomination]

How old are you, breh?

I'm 18 lol.
I was bringing it up because it was a pretty good example of how guilty not letting your s/o see your phone makes you look. If my girl asked to see my phone, she can see it. The only thing on there is a hilariously convoluted search history, nude pictures of her and a few thousand massages between me and a few friends.
There isn't a reason any guy shouldn't be able to let their girl see their phone.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Create single moms brehs.

 

[swerve]

You acted 100% correctly. Your phone and computer is your personal space and no one not even wifey should invade that. She needs to understand that we must have that to function and its not about piping other hoez. If we wanted to pipe other hoez and not make em find out we know how to work that ish and its not keeping it available on your phone.

now, you have a kid with her and for its sake you should work it out with her. If you gonna have a kid you better take responsibility for it too

 

[Michael's Black Son]

... I'm back.

I had nothing to hide but I would never go through her phone and didn't appreciate her request to go thru my phone. She handed me her phone like "here!" but I didn't ask for her phone. I don't even have a lock on my phone so I don't know why she came at me like that. All this happened right after sex and during our pillow talk where I was asking her what makes her happy

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Daam..I hope ya next baby moms dont ask to go thru ya phone..

 

[Point Blank]

Me and my girl share a phone. But we keep it in her purse. If I wanna talk on it I have to put it on speaker phone.

It's not as bad as it sounds though.

 

[Malta]

Does she get your imaginary BMW M5 in the split?

Break up with your fictional baby mommas brehs.

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

Been on other side of this shyt. When I got the point where I felt the need to go through her phone relationship was already over. No trust there. Ended up finding some shyt but even if I hadn't, wouldn't have lasted long.

So if someone wanted to go through my phone right/wrong I'd assume the same.

You not going through my phone. You not putting an app on my phone to check my location. You not gonna be the type to always ask me who I'm texting / talking to / etc.

Need a partner not a parent.

 

[el_oh_el]

..... didn't she just have your child?

How deep is your bond if that's all it takes for you to be gone?

Took back my dap after I read this

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

I really don't care if my wife goes through my phone, hell, we are on the same plan so if she really wanted to get investigative, she could easily pull records. Can't front on those. I can say that it can be cumbersome to have women project their insecurities on you but after a while, they will get the picture like damn, this nikka really isn't out there trying to sling the pipe to different women. I'll show you whatever you want me to show you, just have dinner made when I get home from work and let me get some before I go to bed and I'll be a happy man. Simplicity is the key to life when you don't have anything to hide. It cures all the headaches. I can't remember all my truths so I know damn well I'd fukk up my lies and get caught in some bullshyt if I was about that life.

 

[The Goodz]

I really don't care if my wife goes through my phone, hell, we are on the same plan so if she really wanted to get investigative, she could easily pull records. Can't front on those. I can say that it can be cumbersome to have women project their insecurities on you but after a while, they will get the picture like damn, this nikka really isn't out there trying to sling the pipe to different women. I'll show you whatever you want me to show you, just have dinner made when I get home from work and let me get some before I go to bed and I'll be a happy man. Simplicity is the key to life when you don't have anything to hide. It cures all the headaches. I can't remember all my truths so I know damn well I'd fukk up my lies and get caught in some bullshyt if I was about that life.

Bolded for truth
dap + rep +

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Set yourself for 2 decades of child support b/c you couldn't be more transparent. Choose your battles sir. Changing the whole structure of your family off of principle and hypothetical scenarios. Foolish.

 

[Nino Brown]

You did the right thing

 

[R=G]

Sounds silly as fukk

 

[mr.africa]

Me and my girl share a phone. But we keep it in her purse. If I wanna talk on it I have to put it on speaker phone.

It's not as bad as it sounds though.

i guess it works for you two, so thumps up,but...
i'm sorry breh, don't wanna judge,but that sounds bad!!!
couldn't live like that!!