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This dude talking that fantasy / fairytale ending shyt breh. Aint many happy endings bruh. You have to live for now. Enjoy now. Many dudes have their mind, money and bodies right and still get devastated by a woman. Be very leery of any and all women. It's the safest way.
You have to balance living for now with no regrets vs planning for the future. In actuality, the future is bleek for anyone who's not at least upper middle class. Making 100k ain't really shyt. You can upgrade your car, house and gear, but no real life changing money unless you have amazing investing skills. Which almost no Americans outside of Wall St have. I hate how all these cats talk about invest that money. Very few winners in the investment game. Like most of us, you will be working until Social Security kicks in, hopefully it's still there 30 years from now. So stay healthy and prepare for the long haul.
You don't have to work hard, you have to be smart and real about life. Fukk all of those fairytales and "real man" traits you we were taught. It's a new day, society has change, the economy is fukked up, women aren't as wholesome, men are losing power in the family, racism is back on the rise (visibly). Crazy and uncertain times for men, especially Black men.
You have to look deep into yourself and try to figure out want you really love and like to do.
Me, I'm 34, good job, no kids, decent looking, I love womanizing, I love spending time with my family. When I get to old or ugly to womanize I'll settle down. Unless I can find a woman worth giving the game up (I doubt it) I'm a founding member of GMB and HOH (Board member).
Get money, ride clean, have a nice crib, spend time with people you love and fukk these hoes....
That's all for now breh....
