I'm a black man, and almost every black girl i know is with a black man who is doing something. I only know two sistas who are with white dudes...and based off who they are it makes sence
Problem is average people being ok with being average. Exceptional black women look for exceptional black men. The Problem is 2 fold.
1.Exceptional Black men DON'T Look for exception black women: they just look for what's on point. Eff gittin stuck with some stripper, burger king strumpet just because the ass was fat and she gave me the eye.
2. Average Black women thinking they are exceptional: Flaunting about your $20/hr gig at AT&T lets me know you don't have shyt else to be proud of. What are your talents, ambitions, things you like to learn about. If all you doing is working 5 days a week and hitting the bar on friday while lil Daveon is at his "auntie" Nita house..you aren't a "bad bytch". Youz a cog.
simple as that