Bruhs and Brehettes...My best friend (a woman) today asked me the big question we've both been yearning for...

[Antwon Mitchell]

Boy, don’t get her pregnant. That’s all I can say. Well, that and don’t marry her.

She gone do you exactly like she doing her ex. If she working, you know got damn well she got herself a work bestie

We work at the same job that's how we met.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

We work at the same job that's how we met.

So you was the work husband. Your story gets worse and worse

I hope you ain't too attached to that job

 

[LadyJ2]

She never had sex with him cause she literally had me in the loop of their relationship which is why he felt some way about me.

I knew everything they were doing.

See there's a lot of shyt to be said to give y'all the full picture. It's not what y'all think. There's some important details I've been holding back in this thread on cause it's soo much.

LMFAO

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Told bae about this. He laughed. (Sigh). I’ll give my two cents.
If this isn’t duck tales, and I’m reading between the lines correctly, it sounds like the guy she really wanted dropped her and she is looking for somebody to settle on for marriage.

The reason she never took him to meet her family is because HE never wanted to go. She spinning it like she giving u special privileges, when really, he ain’t want what she was offering so she just passing it along to you.
I dunno if this is gonna work out b/c you might get off on fantasies of being Mr. Steal Yo Girl (unresolved childhood trauma) and she will be “besties” with the next guy she likes while using u as a place holder when she lonely.

I hope I’m wrong and wish you all the best tho. Who knows. Ya’ll might live happily ever after.

 

[African Peasant]

Is this a troll thread?

If it's not, I hope OP is very young.

 

[The God Poster]

Breh said best friends after a year lol

Just call it like it is. You were too shook to make a move earlier so you settled for friends

She “manned” up & now wears the pants.

 

[xCivicx]

...after months of underlying feelings of love and tension.

So I and my best friend have been friends for about a year and during our friendship, there's always been some (good) tension and feelings of love. We both “secretly” fell in love with each other but never pursued a relationship because her code was she didn't think best friends should date BUT all that changed months ago...

Months ago, she had a boyfriend that undeniably jealous of me due to the fact every day she spent more time with me and gave me the most attention. They broke up for other reasons but I believe a part of it was because of me. I'd go into more detail but I don't want this to be too long.

Fast forward to today, this afternoon she asked me to be her BOYFRIEND and I gladly accepted and now as I type this we're sending flirty texts to each other but...

MY QUESTION IS how do I transition from being her BEST FRIEND to now being her BOYFRIEND cause ya know cause I wanna call her the usual “babe, bae, boo” type of shyt without sounding all awkward and shyt cause we used to call each other best friend every time we spoke or text and now it's different.

No offense but this has trainwreck written all over it

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

So you were the work husband. Your story gets worse and worse

I hope you ain't too attached to that job

Y'all keep tryna spin this into something but it's not what y'all think...

I never was friend-zoned because I welcomed it and unlike some of you I value friendships.

While she had her ex at the time...I had a girlfriend I was briefly dating and guess who that was...I was dating her cousin that she hooked me up with but it didn't work out because her cousin was insecure about our friendship and thought our friendship was “weird ” cause of how CLOSE we were.

You wanna know how I knew my best friend had been feeling me for a good grip? Cause her cousin that I was dating told me that she had feelings for me and that's why her cousin was always insecure about me being her best friend.

Her cousin would get mad and tell me to “go talk to your best friend” and “leave me alone, she's your new girlfriend” and “y'all can date each other/I don't care”.

Remember how I wrote how she gave me her Facebook/messenger password? Well, I'd read the messages her cousin would send to her about me.

Right now her cousin and my girlfriend aren't getting along all because of me. They don't speak at all anymore and I tried to mend the fences between them cause I ain't tryna have them beef cause of me...they're cousins and supposed to be tight.

See every time y'all try to clown it's making me give a bit more detail. I only wanted simple answers to my question.

 

[Silkk]

So you was dirty mackin for 12 months and all your effort finally paid off..

This.

Lurking in the cut like a hoe ass nikka smfh

 

[Silkk]

Y'all keep tryna spin this into something but it's not what y'all think...

I never was friend-zoned because I welcomed it and unlike some of you I value friendships.

While she had her ex at the time...I had a girlfriend I was briefly dating and guess who that was...her cousin she hooked me up with but it didn't work out because her cousin was insecure about our friendship.

You wanna know how I knew my best friend had been feeling me for a good grip? Cause her cousin that I was dating told me that she had feelings for me and that's why her cousin was always insecure about me being her best friend.

Her cousin would get mad and tell me to “go talk to your best friend” and “leave me alone, she's your new girlfriend” and “y'all can date each other/I don't care”.

Remember how I wrote how she gave me her Facebook/messenger password? Well, I'd read the messages her cousin would send to her about me.

Right now her cousin and my girlfriend aren't getting along all because of me. They don't speak at all anymore and I tried to mend the fences between them cause I ain't tryna have them beef cause of me...they're cousins and supposed to be tight.

See every time y'all try to clown it's making me give a bit more detail. I only wanted simple answers to my question.

She was not your fukking best friend

You just couldn't get it cause she had a boyfriend and stuck around like a gump until that ended

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Y'all keep tryna spin this into something but it's not what y'all think...

I never was friend-zoned because I welcomed it and unlike some of you I value friendships.

While she had her ex at the time...I had a girlfriend I was briefly dating and guess who that was...I was dating her cousin that she hooked me up with but it didn't work out because her cousin was insecure about our friendship and thought our friendship was “weird ” cause of how CLOSE we were.

You wanna know how I knew my best friend had been feeling me for a good grip? Cause her cousin that I was dating told me that she had feelings for me and that's why her cousin was always insecure about me being her best friend.

Her cousin would get mad and tell me to “go talk to your best friend” and “leave me alone, she's your new girlfriend” and “y'all can date each other/I don't care”.

Remember how I wrote how she gave me her Facebook/messenger password? Well, I'd read the messages her cousin would send to her about me.

Right now her cousin and my girlfriend aren't getting along all because of me. They don't speak at all anymore and I tried to mend the fences between them cause I ain't tryna have them beef cause of me...they're cousins and supposed to be tight.

See every time y'all try to clown it's making me give a bit more detail. I only wanted simple answers to my question.

 

[Roid Jones]

How you got her is how you will lose her and she will blame you for taking advantage and making her break her code

 

[Killer Instinct]

Fast forward to today, this afternoon she asked me to be her BOYFRIEND and I gladly accepted and now as I type this we're sending flirty texts to each other but...

On the slim chance your name isn't Johnny Appleseed & this is not a tall tale, you may as well lay on a plate because you are food.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Her spending more time with you was disrespectful to her ex.

Update us when it don’t workout tho

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

Her ex didn't have standards. I was better than him and you wanna know why? He was jobless and hung out on the street all day with his friends. She was embarrassed of him.

They only dated for like two months lol I knew her before him.

How old are you, you sound like you 15, lil bytch shyt