Bruhs, How Can A Girl Tell If A Guy Likes Her...

[A Woman's Opinion]

I need you guys to help your favorite Bruhette out again. (You fellas give the best advice. )



How can I tell if this guy likes me? Long story short... We work together. I have a boyfriend. He has a live in girlfriend and kids.

But I think he likes me. (I think) he always comes to me and sparks conversation. He's always offering to help me with everything at work.

We ate lunch together, and he began opening up to me about how he wasn't really happy with his GF. I tried to encourage him. I told him he was doing right by being with his kids, and no relationship is perfect. I talked to him about my dude too.


Of course he could just be being nice, but I get the feeling he COULD be trying to finagle something more. (Which I don't want, but I don't want to lead him on, or give him the wrong idea)



How can I tell?


















PS: Please be nice and serious. Yall usually mean to me. IDK why



PPS: #AllInCle #CavsInSix

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

I need you guys to help your favorite Bruhette out again. (You fellas give the best advice. )



How can I tell if this guy likes me? Long story short... We work together. I have a boyfriend. He has a live in girlfriend and kids.

But I think he likes me. (I think) he always comes to me and sparks conversation. He's always offering to help me with everything at work.

We ate lunch together, and he began opening up to me about how he wasn't really happy with his GF. I tried to encourage him. I told him he was doing right by being with his kids, and no relationship is perfect. I talked to him about my dude too.


Of course he could just be being nice, but I get the feeling he COULD be trying to finagle something more. (Which I don't want, but I don't want to lead him on, or give him the wrong idea)



How can I tell?


















PS: Please be nice and serious. Yall usually mean to me. IDK why



PPS: #AllInCle #CavsInSix

That's ur answer there. I do this sometimes to let a girl know I'm feeling her

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

That's ur answer there. I do this sometimes to let a girl know I'm feeling her

I thought this, but then I thought maybe he was just nice.


I look around to see if he does that with other girls we work with. He doesn't. (Not around me at least)

I also smile a lot and have a friendly personality. So I thought that may have drive him to being nice to me. IDK

 

[Quiet Magician]

This is your fault. You should have been upfront with him and let him know you aren't comfortable with all the attention he is giving you. Instead of that, we get a situation where the guy isn't getting told to stop and has a free light to be all over you.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

What are you? 12? Ask him and stop with these elementary school guessing-games........

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[YouMadd?]

If you are avoiding him on purpose... Thad how you know...

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

This is your fault. You should have been upfront with him and let him know you aren't comfortable with all the attention he is giving you. Instead of that, we get a situation where the guy isn't getting told to stop and has a free light to be all over you.

No. It's not that it makes me uncomfortable. I like having a friend at work. I think we work good together. (We are in sales) I just wonder if he MAY like me. If he does like me, then it's not okay. I don't want to lead him on or make things awkward. My brother always said I couldn't tell when a guy was flirting with me or liked me. Over the past couple of years I have lost a lot of weight, so my experiences with men are changing. I'm not always sure if some is being nice, or prying for something more, YA know?

That's why I'm asking you. How can I tell?

 

[360dagod]

Wait for next week's thread..

He stopped talking to me, is he mad?

He talks to another female and i kinda miss him

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

What are you? 12? Ask him and stop with these elementary school guessing-games........

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I can't do that at work.


Also... If I ask him, he may think I'm coming on to him.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Wait for next week's thread..

He stopped talking to me, is he mad?

He talks to another female and i kinda miss him

Hey. I said be nice!


Besides. I have a dude I'm prolly gonna marry.

 

[Dwolf]

I need you guys to help your favorite Bruhette out again. (You fellas give the best advice. )



How can I tell if this guy likes me? Long story short... We work together. I have a boyfriend. He has a live in girlfriend and kids.

But I think he likes me. (I think) he always comes to me and sparks conversation. He's always offering to help me with everything at work.

We ate lunch together, and he began opening up to me about how he wasn't really happy with his GF. I tried to encourage him. I told him he was doing right by being with his kids, and no relationship is perfect. I talked to him about my dude too.


Of course he could just be being nice, but I get the feeling he COULD be trying to finagle something more. (Which I don't want, but I don't want to lead him on, or give him the wrong idea)



How can I tell?


















PS: Please be nice and serious. Yall usually mean to me. IDK why



PPS: #AllInCle #CavsInSix

 

[Couth]

if he does like you hes too passive aggressive to do anything about it.

Gonna assume he does like you and bringing up his relationship was his way of testing the waters.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Your thoughts?

 

[Bunchy Carter]

I need you guys to help your favorite Bruhette out again. (You fellas give the best advice. )



How can I tell if this guy likes me? Long story short... We work together. I have a boyfriend. He has a live in girlfriend and kids.

But I think he likes me. (I think) he always comes to me and sparks conversation. He's always offering to help me with everything at work.

We ate lunch together, and he began opening up to me about how he wasn't really happy with his GF. I tried to encourage him. I told him he was doing right by being with his kids, and no relationship is perfect. I talked to him about my dude too.


Of course he could just be being nice, but I get the feeling he COULD be trying to finagle something more. (Which I don't want, but I don't want to lead him on, or give him the wrong idea)



How can I tell?


















PS: Please be nice and serious. Yall usually mean to me. IDK why



PPS: #AllInCle #CavsInSix

Here's my advise

 

[Quiet Magician]

No. It's not that it makes me uncomfortable. I like having a friend at work. I think we work good together. (We are in sales) I just wonder if he MAY like me. If he does like me, then it's not okay. I don't want to lead him on or make things awkward. My brother always said I couldn't tell when a guy was flirting with me or liked me. Over the past couple of years I have lost a lot of weight, so my experiences with men are changing. I'm not always sure if some is being nice, or prying for something more, YA know?

That's why I'm asking you. How can I tell?

Let me put this in the most concrete way possible, if a guy is willing to help a female employee a lot of times on a job, he is definitely interested her. This isn't a hobby or some friend type shyt, this is your job. People do their jobs and head on home. They don't do extra shyt unless to go for promotions and even then they do it so that their bosses know they are doing for a raise. He is purposely making his job harder on himself to make it easier on you. Not really that hard to figure that out. A gentlemen will help a female based on chivalry but he isn't going to bust his ass on an acquaintance. This is passed being nice.

You guys think you are friends but you are more work buddies. I doubt this relationship is all that tight outside of work, considering you two are both in relationships. If he is telling you that his relationships is rocky, he is sending strong signs to you that he wouldn't mind fooling around. Sometimes when men are so beaten and so frustrated with their relationship at home that they get rosey coloured glasses that augment their sense of reality. He sees you in your best light, when you are behaved at work and thus is catching feelings.