Bruhs, How Can A Girl Tell If A Guy Likes Her...

[A Woman's Opinion]

You could easily(indirectly) let him know you have a bf or arent interested........BUT like most women, you want to vaguely lead him on so it can appease ur ego and you can tell yourself how many dudes like you/tryna get with you.

Did you actually read the post and my replies????


He knows I have a boyfriend. We have discussed our relationships together on lunch break. I have encouraged him to be patient with his BM and stay with her.


How am I leading him to believe I want him?

 

[Originalgangsta317]

I explained it multiple times. I don't "care so much". I posted very clearly what the issue was and was not.

I do not want him, but I do like him as a work buddy. I don't want to lead him on if he wants more. Do you get it?

You aint shyt

 

[nalej]

I explained it multiple times. I don't "care so much". I posted very clearly what the issue was and was not.

I do not want him, but I do like him as a work buddy. I don't want to lead him on if he wants more. Do you get it?

How old are you? Because for an adult female this shouldn't be that difficult. Just let him know explicitly or even with hints that you aren't interested that way. You are making an issue out of an non issue.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

How old are you? Because for an adult female this shouldn't be that difficult. Just let him know explicitly or even with hints that you aren't interested that way. You are making an issue out of an non issue.

I have said that I would never mess with a co worker, one of my brothers friends, or a friends EX.


Is that not making it clear?

 

[Originalgangsta317]

How old are you? Because for an adult female this shouldn't be that difficult. Just let him know explicitly or even with hints that you aren't interested that way. You are making an issue out of an non issue.

Why yall keep entertaining this broad?????!!!

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Why yall keep entertaining this broad?????!!!

If you don't like or believe me you can leave the thread and put me on ignore!


You don't to try to convince others to feel the same!

 

[Originalgangsta317]

If you don't like or believe me you can leave the thread and put me on ignore!


You don't to try to convince others to feel the same!

 

[StickStickly]

my dentist asked me what perfume i was wearing

 

[Elle Driver]

I honestly wouldn't care if he liked me because it doesn't matter since you're spoken for. What will you get out of knowing that? All you need to do is keep it professional and keep it moving unless you really do enjoy the attention.

 

[Dev2103]

my dentist asked me what perfume i was wearing

that could just be curiosity...i mean hes close to you when youre in the chair, unless he was actually sniffing you. i ask about nice smells too

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

If you read the OP carefully I stated because I don't want to lead him on, and I don't want things to get awkward.


However, I also like having a work buddy to talk to and do lunch breaks with.



I said that very clearly.

Right but here's the issue. If you are at work and you are simply being friendly as you have stated then you have nothing to worry about. It's not YOUR problem if he is starting to "like" you if all you are doing is being yourself. You should be treating this dude as you would treat any other person who works there and if you aren't.. or if you are going out of your way to be super friendly then that is on you. Bottom line, you shouldn't be concerned if he likes you or not unless you really do like him and your relationship ain't all that

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Right but here's the issue. If you are at work and you are simply being friendly as you have stated then you have nothing to worry about. It's not YOUR problem if he is starting to "like" you if all you are doing is being yourself. You should be treating this dude as you would treat any other person who works there and if you aren't.. or if you are going out of your way to be super friendly then that is on you. Bottom line, you shouldn't be concerned if he likes you or not unless you really do like him and your relationship ain't all that

This is all true, but somewhat naive. Right? We can say all day it doesn't matter, but if he does, and later feels rejected he could become a problem. At work.


Lots of men don't cope with rejection well. Anywhere. (I know this from experience) that's why I originally asked the question.


I'm cool now though.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

This is all true, but somewhat naive. Right? We can say all day it doesn't matter, but if he does, and later feels rejected he could become a problem. At work.


Lots of men don't cope with rejection well. Anywhere. (I know this from experience) that's why I originally asked the question.


I'm cool now though.

He's got a girl and you got a man, if you aren't putting yourself out there (and you said you have not) then there should not be ANY expectations. Honestly, I don't think it's wise to make "work friends" with the opposite sex if y'all gotta see each other all the time. Some guys will be cool with it but most will be after your goods.