Busting early: Automatic Deal Breaker?

[Secure Da Bag]

7 minutes is the longest I've had someone last on the first round. And there's no kind of energy in my thang. It seems like yall just cum fast. Idk what I would do, if I met a guy that lasted real long, I'm not used to that. Like I said, sometimes it comes in handy, because when it's not good, I know it's about to be over anyway. But it's not a dealbreaker obviously, thought it was par for a course. I usually don't sleep with a man when I don't have feelings for him, or some sort of relationship going on, so by the time I sleep with them, I already like em, and so busting too soon doesn't turn me off.

So if it being quick doesn't count as "not good", then how do you define "not good" sex?

 

[CarmelBarbie]

So if it being quick doesn't count as "not good", then how do you define "not good" sex?

when it doesn't feel good... Not enough foreplay. Or I had a bf, who had to wait a while before he could do another round, so it's like he would bust real quick, then would have to wait before he could fukk again, and that was no bueno...

Edited to add--condoms sometimes make it not feel good too. It's like somedays condoms are fine and don't bother me, other times they bother me. But I won't go without a condom, so... Guess there's nothing that can be done about that one.

 

[Secure Da Bag]

when it doesn't feel good... Not enough foreplay. Or I had a bf, who had to wait a while before he could do another round, so it's like he would bust real quick, then would have to wait before he could fukk again, and that was no bueno...

 

[Supercoolmayo]

Does busting early mean you didnt actually smash?

 

[MF budz]

Does busting early mean you didnt actually smash?

Nope that dikk could be in there for 30 seconds, you hit it.

 

[Serious]

Don't most of yall cum fairly quick, lol? I've never been with anyone that lasted more than 7 mins for instance, that's why there's usually a second round where yall tend to last longer. It is annoying though, for sure. But sometimes lowkey I be happy, because if it's not good, at least I know it'll be over soon.

So if a dude lasted like 20+ minute, how would you feel?

 

[Pineal Gland]

I always give em at least two rounds unless it's wack... And round 2 starts immediately, I don't need a break

 

[King Poetic]

7 minutes is the longest I've had someone last on the first round. And there's no kind of energy in my thang. It seems like yall just cum fast. Idk what I would do, if I met a guy that lasted real long, I'm not used to that. Like I said, sometimes it comes in handy, because when it's not good, I know it's about to be over anyway. But it's not a dealbreaker obviously, thought it was par for a course. I usually don't sleep with a man when I don't have feelings for him, or some sort of relationship going on, so by the time I sleep with them, I already like em, and so busting too soon doesn't turn me off.

How u know if it wasn’t good?? The feel, the stroke

 

[Ricky Dunigan]

Does busting early mean you didnt actually smash?

good question:

Let’s say anything between not making it in and lasting a few seconds

 

[CarmelBarbie]

So if dude lasted like 20+ minute how would you feel?

I don't know tbh. It probably would be too long for me at this point. And what if it's bad for 20+ minutes--omg I don't know what I would do.

 

[Serious]

when it doesn't feel good... Not enough foreplay. Or I had a bf, who had to wait a while before he could do another round, so it's like he would bust real quick, then would have to wait before he could fukk again, and that was no bueno...

Edited to add--condoms sometimes make it not feel good too. It's like somedays condoms are fine and don't bother me, other times they bother me. But I won't go without a condom, so... Guess there's nothing that can be done about that one.

Yo.....

I'm going keep it 100 with you, from the sounds of it, you've never been fukked right....

I'm not even trying brag on myself, but you're telling on yourself big time about your sex life.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

How u know if it wasn’t good?? The feel, the stroke

when it doesn't feel good... Not enough foreplay. Or I had a bf, who had to wait a while before he could do another round, so it's like he would bust real quick, then would have to wait before he could fukk again, and that was no bueno...

Edited to add--condoms sometimes make it not feel good too. It's like somedays condoms are fine and don't bother me, other times they bother me. But I won't go without a condom, so... Guess there's nothing that can be done about that one.

 

[Serious]

I don't know tbh. It probably would be too long for me at this point. And what if it's bad for 20+ minutes--omg I don't know what I would do.

There's a lot I was about say, but won't out of respect for your private life.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Yo.....

I'm going keep it 100 with you, from the sounds of it, you've never been fukked right....

I'm not even trying brag on myself, but you're telling on yourself big time about your sex life.

It was only one bf that bust quick and wouldn't be able to go for another round right after. But I usually get mines the second round and they're able to last longer the second round too, so it's not been a huge deal. Like I said, I only have sex with men I have *feels* for, so by the time we have sex I already like them enough, not lasting long enough isn't a deal-breaker. I always thought it was the norm. I mean, I could have sworn I read something that said as much too. I'll look for it.

Found it: How long does the average man last in bed?

I've never talked about it with my friends, but yeah, I pretty much figured this was the norm and it looks like it is....

 

[Strapped]

The lies