BW complaining because the BM she WANTS do not see her as exotic

[Gloxina]

Well said.

Question, do you think an average agreeable woman will get chosen by an average man?

Also do you feel average people usually date average people despite what they claim to want?

Not even being funny, but when ppl “stay in their lane” they have the easiest time. Average folks who stick to average folks are realistic and probably deal with less shyt overall.

It’s the men with money with endless options and the attractive women who can always find another man who need to pick someone and not continuously play musical chairs.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Back in the days this shyt only happened amongst house wives while drinking tea at home. Now it's everywhere

 

[Gloxina]

She didn’t want your ass to began with

If he wanted her he woulda scooped her before she experienced all this trauma

 

[Neuromancer]

Not even being funny, but when ppl “stay in their lane” they have the easiest time. Average folks who stick to average folks are realistic and probably deal with less shyt overall.

It’s the men with money with endless options and the attractive women who can always find another man who need to pick someone and not continuously play musical chairs.

I feel you and agree. Do you think people would benefit from a push towards being average looking being ok?

 

[Gloxina]

I didn't want invalidate your experieces with wierdo Black dudes not really sure how they think that's gonna get you interested in them if they say You're pretty for a Black Girl

But that aside the worst thing women do is tell on themselves like this. Women go hard on dissing super Ug Mugs for trying to holla then when they get ran through or just being 40 and fabolous and dudes wondering If she's so fly why did all these other dudes bush her?

Every Man knows how it looks to be the Old nikka in the club not really sure how women can't make the connection.

The whole point of getting married is to grow old Together. Generally speaking desirabilty decreases with age that's not gender or race specific.

Agree

 

[Gloxina]

I feel you and agree. Do you think people would benefit from a push towards being average looking being ok?

Of course

 

[BigMan]

She’s an attractive women but has a nasty spirit and personality and deep insecurities and self hate

*sigh* I hate seeing black people like this

Why doesn’t she just date men who like dark skin women? Problem solved

 

[feelosofer]

It's not her being darkskinned ahe comes as entitled.

 

[Chrishaune]

Alot of these women haven't accepted that they are just on the upper end of the average-looking range. And that as soon as they open their mouth a lot of these men decide that she's not worth putting up with beyond intercourse.

I know people don't like him on here, but Kevin Samuels was deadly accurate with that "eternal 7" shyt.

If most women would close their mouth, they would get farther.

Men would be like "she knows how to act"

 

[BlaccSunrise]

I don't believe this. Society and the community let alot of unnactrive dark skin women (which includes the one in the OP) use that as crutch as to why they're not getting chose by the men they want.

How many black men you think will pass over women like these for lighter or "exotic" women?

Artificial intelligence image babble

 

[Easy-E]

"boys"?

That's the way most grown women on social media talk.

 

[Amo Husserl]

That's the way most grown women on social media talk.

 

[O.Red]

Alot of these women haven't accepted that they are just on the upper end of the average-looking range. And that as soon as they open their mouth a lot of these men decide that she's not worth putting up with beyond intercourse.

I know people don't like him on here, but Kevin Samuels was deadly accurate with that "eternal 7" shyt.

Basically. There are worse looking women than her in happier relationships because they're a pleasure to be around

The internet is a great incubator for feast or famine rhetoric and people that don't fall into this podcast/social media relationship discourse bubble tend to have better lives and relationships than people wallowing in confirmation bias induced helplessness

 

[Justin Nitsuj]

She lost me when she said she dates out. So she shouldn't be speaking on black men and telling lies knowing that she only wants white men.

 

[RichYung]

Trying to guilt/shame folks into wanting you is sad