Here in lies the issue.
OF COURSE if you are GORGEOUS, regardless of complexion you will have your choice of men. But most women aren’t beautiful.
What happens to the women who are average (which is most women/people)?
LS women who are average have it easier than DS who are average. THAT is the point. And ppl say “oh well get over it”, but the difference is women can’t override that with money/status like a less attractive man, because we are more harshly judged based on aesthetics. So, yea, women are talking about it because it’s a real experience.
People talk all sorts of shyt about desiring a good person with a good heart, etc, but most ppl end up chasing aesthetics. Same reason dudes talk about who women “really choose”; because they realize there are men who don’t need the money, cars, etc to pull attractive, agreeable women. Those men just happen to look a certain way and women fall in their lap.
The beauty/attractive market really sucks for those who aren’t in it, and/or those who are too influenced by it.