When ppl say black women only go for thugs that really means “the black woman I want/think I deserve, only go for thugs/ballers and not me”
no different when women be talking to they male friend and be like “there’s just no good men out here” meanwhile the male friend dying inside cuz he loves her and treats her like a queen.
there are way too many black women out here that date regular down to earth dudes. There’s black chicks into anime( and not just the thots on IG trying to find a niche), black chicks into games, black chicks into goth, black chicks into skating, black chicks dating a nikka with a 9-5 and so on. Ppl gotta find they lane, there’s someone for everyone.