in the spirit of giving some sense of hope, i had a chick i was "friends" with hit me w/ something similar in college. to be honest i deserved it because i was 1 on 1 w/ her once in her room and didnt make a move.
anyway, she made this comment like 2 months later after i didnt try to smash. i played it cool and didnt react but i stopped being responsive in texts, stopped chillin w/ her....really stopped fukkin w/ her in general.
around the same time i ended up in this friends w/ benefits type situation w/ 2 other chicks. i happened to be walking one back to her apartment to smash, didnt think anyone was around, and grabbed her ass on some playful "this is mine when we get to your apartment

" shyt. At the same time Im doin this I see someone in the corner of my eye coming around the corner. it was the chick that'd ethered me.
my reaction was a little bit of embarrassment at first, but the look the chick who ethered me got on her face....

it was like a sudden quick transition through



. never seen a chick look so disappointed who wasn't my moms lol.
i realized in that moment it mustve come across like i'd been fronting on her because i'd chosen somebody else, and all i could do is look at her like

. i felt bad...but not that bad.
but breh for the rest of the semester that chick was on my dikk like nothing else. straight invites to the crib to fukk. shyt put me off a little bit so i just kept the other two girls in rotation like

to the other one. to this day, like 5 years after graduation, the chick that ethered me is still volunterring to fly out and "pay a visit".
so, long story short. cut her loose and find a way to flip the script. whatever do don't let the shyt "get to you".