bytches just getting pregnant to keep u, why?

[Paradise]

Some of the responses in this thread are utterly disgusting and some of you should really be ashamed of yourselves.

Sex (most of the time) is two people deciding to have sex. It is also both of you guys making sure that birth control is being used.

You guys decided to have unprotected sex and now she is pregnant and wants to keep it.

All I can say is when you do grown up things.. you have to make grown up decisions.

I hope you have a job. Looks you are gonna be a papa really soon...

 

[JT-Money]

Or the dad's not around but I guess that's ok if he didn't want the kid in the first place

You won the argument no need to spike the football.

 

[NBA Youngbreh]

Congrats on the baby

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

Do you really think it is easy to get a abortion? Do you know what pain some(definitely not all) women go through. I don't know whether she is religious or not, maybe she is thinking about the moral and ethical ramifications of getting a abortion? Some people believe getting a abortion is going against their religious beliefs or consious. As other poster said, you should had used a condom, which prevents you from getting std's, and avoiding unwanted pregnancies or at least abstain. Now you need to grow up and bear the consequences of your actions, and hopefully you will truly grow from this.

She can't be that religious if she was having premarital sex brehette.

 

[PinotNoir]

Y have a kid with me? Idk what to even say to her she's being irrational about what we were even doing. We cool that's it, I'd love to have my kids raised in my household proporely but it's not happening with us

don't go raw in a woman you can't see yourself living with let alone raising a family with. This is your fault....got the nerves to be complaining and you already have two abortions with two different women.

 

[GoldTeef]

pay her to abort it.

 

[street heat]

@Warren Moon how old are you?

at 24 shes probably not going to get an abortion. thats around the age women like to start popping them out. i know it sucks breh but its time to face reality.

you need to jump out ahead on the child support thing. you need to find out what shes planning to do on that front for real. if she says she isnt going to do that and just wants you to be around, and help buy things for the child when needed, you still need to document what you give her because she may change her mind in a couple of years and then they will throw back support on even if you have been giving her money the whole time. so you might want to avoid giving her straight cash. i pay CS and yes it sucks, but there is no way around it unless you are going to wife her up. personally id rather pay than put up with my daughters mom.

dont stress too much breh, children are a good thing. its just not going to hit you until its actually born. its a part of YOU. you live on through them. the possibilities are endless. your child might end up being a genius or something.

oh and get a paternity test no matter what, just for piece of mind. if yall were just "chillin" theres no telling how many dudes shes been chillin with. dont come at her sideways about it but just explain to her you need to know for a fact. this is not the type of thing to just take someones word on. this is life changing.

 

[JT-Money]

Some of the response in this thread are utterly disgusting and some of you should really be ashamed of yourselves.

Sex (most of the time) is a two people deciding to have sex. It is also both of you guys making sure that birth control is being used.

You guys decided to have unprotected sex and now she is pregnant and wants to keep it.

All I can say is when you do grown up things.. you have to make grown up decision.

I hope you have a job. Looks you are gonna be a papa really soon...

Women do lie about taking birth control though. Why do most women think it's inconceivable that some women will try to trap guys with a baby?

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

He wanted the kid by default when he had unprotected sex. Period. Lmao you can't want unprotected sex but not the kids or potential stds that come with it.

This sounds cute but is completely detached from reality.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

You won the argument no need to spike the football.

I think @wickedsm won it for me but I'll take it

 

[Drip Bayless]

Don't hit it raw unless you see her swallow the pill

 

[Misreeya]

She can't be that religious if she was having premarital sex brehette.

True, but people still do have a tendency to hold on certain aspect to their former religious beliefs whether they are religious or not. I see this a number of times from people i know personally. Then it is the ethical dilemma you deal with or questions such as, does life begin during conception or not? Is it only a fetus or is it a human life? Am i murdering or complicit to murdering a human life? or is the fetus really a non entity or non really alive until in comes to full term? Those are the question the couple need to ask themselves. Again getting a abortion is not easy decision for a woman, it can be downright painful, and it takes some time to recover? There is many complication (sometimes) in getting a abortion, so when a women get a abortion, she must make sure she knows both the pro, and cons of her actions. Lastly, there is also the psychological aspect or the after affects of terminated a pregnancy, both on the woman and sometimes the man.

 

[Paradise]

Women do lie about taking birth control though. Why do most women think it's inconceivable that some women will try to trap guys with a baby?

That is very true. I know some one who dated a woman and she lied the whole time about being on the pill and being allergic to latex.

It's not. Some women will do whatever she thinks would keep that man coming around or make him commit.

 

[Guile]

I got a girl pregnant we just kickin it but she's keeping it.

Ive ever experienced this just keeping the baby bc she has no valid reason to besides bn a selfish woman.


How do I get her head right?

Sounds like you gotta hold that.

Abstinence boys are 100-0.

 

[Neil Tyson]

Some of the response in this thread are utterly disgusting and some of you should really be ashamed of yourselves.

Sex (most of the time) is two people deciding to have sex. It is also both of you guys making sure that birth control is being used.

You guys decided to have unprotected sex and now she is pregnant and wants to keep it.

All I can say is when you do grown up things.. you have to make grown up decisions.

I hope you have a job. Looks you are gonna be a papa really soon...

Trappers should commit that period.