bytches just getting pregnant to keep u, why?

[Jimi Swagger]

I would document any text/email/chats and specifying that you do not want the child, you want her to have an abortion and offer to sponsor you just fit. State your reason, finances, work...you just hate her and don't think yall can healthy coparent, etc). If she refuses, and if you really don't want to deal with her or the kid you can sign away your rights, in rare cases you will still be liable for support. You can refuse a paternity test if you would like. The court takes into account that women have the right to elect for an abortion but men do not have this choice. That is sad. I would normally say congratulations but doesnt sound like it's the ideal situation to welcome a new life. Honestly think if men ask and sponsor abortions and medical costs then women should have to foot it alone if they decide to keep it. Selfish decision.

 

[street heat]

She's straight trapping me man.

what is the reason you are against having a child with her? is it because shes not attractive enough? not very smart? immature?

lol one day you'll realize this is not the worst thing that can happen to you

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

Then I guess most single mothers aren't applying for government assistance either. Only 41% of unwed single mothers receive child support.

The name and shame game isn't really played in white communities. You go for aid in black community they will basically try to tell you that you can't get aid without naming the father, which is actually false, but a lot of these women don't know that.

 

[newworldafro]

Multiple pills that work up to 4 months.


These "abortions" are just stronger version of pills used for plan b and birth control

 

[Warren Moon]

what is the reason you are against having a child with her? is it because shes not attractive enough? not very smart? immature?

lol one day you'll realize this is not the worst thing that can happen to you

We r not long term compatible

 

[Donald J Trump]

What does what you said have to do with the OP?

Your goal was to disparage Black women

i said black hoes, maybe u should learn to read before negging cuz aint no real woman trapping a man in 2016

 

[street heat]

Then either most single mothers aren't applying for government assistance or the men aren't paying even when they're being court-ordered to.

Only 41% of unwed single mothers receive child support.

plenty of women actually dont choose to fukk their childs father over. (if shes black, she 100% will though ) and lets not forget the women who cant put a dude on CS because they dont even know who the father is from all the heauxin' they were doing.

if a man doesnt pay, then they just start garnishing or put him in jail. im not sure im buying those numbers youre throwing out though

i

 

[Rawtid]

bruhhh....I've been lucky because my girl just got her period after letting egg nog shoot too many times. playing Russian roulette like a MUG!







or maybe I'm sterile

That's how it goes. You "slip up" a couple times and think it's all good and then your pull out game gets weaker and weaker next thing you know her period is missing but y'all not even getting along that week.

 

[Rawtid]

I would document any text/email/chats and specifying that you do not want the child, you want her to have an abortion and offer to sponsor you just fit. State your reason, finances, work...you just hate her and don't think yall can healthy coparent, etc). If she refuses, and if you really don't want to deal with her or the kid you can sign away your rights, in rare cases you will still be liable for support. You can refuse a paternity test if you would like. The court takes into account that women have the right to elect for an abortion but men do not have this choice. That is sad. I would normally say congratulations but doesnt sound like it's the ideal situation to welcome a new life. Honestly think if men ask and sponsor abortions and medical costs then women should have to foot it alone if they decide to keep it. Selfish decision.

LMMFAO!!

If you sell drugs and get locked up, youre not allowed to say "but I didn't want to get locked up" then why did you sell the drugs?!?

Same thing with kids. You can't claim you don't want any and still willingly have unprotected sex. That sounds stupid. Your actions implied that you did.

 

[street heat]

I would document any text/email/chats and specifying that you do not want the child, you want her to have an abortion and offer to sponsor you just fit. State your reason, finances, work...you just hate her and don't think yall can healthy coparent, etc). If she refuses, and if you really don't want to deal with her or the kid you can sign away your rights, in rare cases you will still be liable for support. You can refuse a paternity test if you would like. The court takes into account that women have the right to elect for an abortion but men do not have this choice. That is sad. I would normally say congratulations but doesnt sound like it's the ideal situation to welcome a new life. Honestly think if men ask and sponsor abortions and medical costs then women should have to foot it alone if they decide to keep it. Selfish decision.

nah OP shouldnt do all that. one day he will have to look that child in the face. you going to tell them i dont want anything to do with you ?

OP is just going through that stage we all go through when this happens. it WILL pass. man, a kid is like the only true unconditional love you will ever be able to give/receive. he doesnt want to miss out on that he just doesnt know it yet.

he thinks hes not ready, but no one really is. this is all just life. you just have to adapt to the change

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

The Empire of Hipproacy strikes back

Love it or leave it bytch.

 

[Giselle]

She's 24. I've only gone through this twice and both times they got abortions. S women getting older and keeping it really a thing?

I don't feel sorry for you. You've been in this situation more than once. I hope she has the baby and puts you on childsupport.

Wear a condom next time or get snipped.

There are so many types of condoms and birth contol.

 

[Kings County]

Wear a condom

nah

 

[13473]

all the plots to kill a black baby in this thread

 

[Giselle]

Do you really think it is easy to get a abortion? Do you know what pain some(definitely not all) women go through. I don't know whether she is religious or not, maybe she is thinking about the moral and ethical ramifications of getting a abortion? Some people believe getting a abortion is going against their religious beliefs or consious. As other poster said, you should had used a condom, which prevents you from getting std's, and avoiding unwanted pregnancies or at least abstain. Now you need to grow up and bear the consequences of your actions, and hopefully you will truly grow from this.

I agree and disagree with you. For some women it is easy for them to get abortions, which is why they get multiple.

ow you need to grow up and bear the consequences of your actions, and hopefully you will truly grow from this.

Do you use this same line on women who get abortions too? I think women who get abortions and males like op and dead beat dads are all the same. They should all "grow up and bear the consequences of their actions". Take care of their children instead of killing them or running away.