Cac finds out his girl was with another guy at college dorm

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Not clicking a Reddit link. But from the comments the dude is white and got cheated on by a white girl.

He is not going to be fine.
If this is all it takes to break him then he's not destined to survive in this world. I didn't watch the video, but this doesn't strike me as him walking in on the 10 year love of his life breaking heart. This is likely some college girl he kissing on that he met at a party or in class and this is the way he's finding out that it's probably not going to work out in his favor.

This is thecoli where *some people thinking roasting/snapping on someone in school cause irreparable esteem issues

"Why you got a peanut head?"
"You shouldn't say things like that, they're funny in the moment, but the really hurt. They make a person question how they look and how others look at them. Real friends don't say things like that :("
I wouldn’t feel sad at all if dude came back and shot that stupid whore up. :yeshrug:

If he ain't married with kids, only thing he should be shooting is shots at other women. He has no right to the broad.
 
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Now if bruv punched ol girls lights out, the n-gga's around her would play white knight.

I'd tell bruv to keep his head up, because all birds have their day
 

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Not clicking a Reddit link. But from the comments the dude is white and got cheated on by a white girl.


If this is all it takes to break him then he's not destined to survive in this world. I didn't watch the video, but this doesn't strike me as him walking in on the 10 year love of his life breaking heart. This is likely some college girl he kissing on that he met at a party or in class and this is the way he's finding out that it's probably not going to work out in his favor.

This is thecoli where *some people thinking roasting/snapping on someone in school cause irreparable esteem issues

"Why you got a peanut head?"
"You shouldn't say things like that, they're funny in the moment, but the really hurt. They make a person question how they look and how others look at them. Real friends don't say things like that :("


If he ain't married with kids, only thing he should be shooting is shots at other women. He has no right to the broad.
There's a difference between snapping on someone, and creating a cornerstone event in someone's life that dictates how they move forward with interpersonal relationships. there are tons of people who have commitment issues based on one singular event. Just because something changes the way you move, or think, doesn't mean that it broke you...come on now.
 

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My shyt happened right after college (which pissed me off cause I was faithful all through and turned down some great opportunities). Had the same girl all through college. Long distance for the last three years. She kept delaying moving once I got a real job, found out she had been cheating for two of the years and that's why she wouldn't move. We had two kids together. I was willing to move past it. I poured my heart out in an email telling her that I still love her and want us to be together and raise my daughters in the same house. She forwarded that heartfelt email to her best friend with the message "LOL read this shyt". Took me about 5-7 years before I lost the coldness I developed from that shyt. Only reason I lost it is cause I fukked things up with a female that was wife material cause I was on some dog shyt.
You can't be loyal to most college chicks. They like variety too much. Honestly, many of us are the same way. They just lie way more than we do.
 

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There's a difference between snapping on someone, and creating a cornerstone event in someone's life that dictates how they move forward with interpersonal relationships. there are tons of people who have commitment issues based on one singular event. Just because something changes the way you move, or think, doesn't mean that it broke you...come on now.

I haven't watched the video, I definitely don't know the guy personally but I doubt this is a cornerstone event in his life. With the finite amount of possibilities and opportunities a person has with what time any person has left in their life, you'd be surprised what is forgiven and/forgotten. It's more of a chore to carry around and harbor ill will against others than it is to move onward.
 

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Be a kind upstanding, gentlemen crehs:mjlol:Just primal female nature, they are not even trying to mask it anymore, they do not care:yeshrug:
 

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If he came back and sprayed the dorm up i'd understand it :hubie:


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I haven't watched the video, I definitely don't know the guy personally but I doubt this is a cornerstone event in his life. With the finite amount of possibilities and opportunities a person has with what time any person has left in their life, you'd be surprised what is forgiven and/forgotten. It's more of a chore to carry around and harbor ill will against others than it is to move onward.

The kid got spit on, cheated on, embarrassed in front of his peer group and embarrassed in front of potentially millions of people to see on Reddit. If that isn’t a cornerstone moment, I don’t know what is. Potential for opportunities doesn’t change how you approach said opportunity. This is basic psychology…people’s experience shape how the move in the future. He’s a young kid…it may not define who he is as a person/man…but it sure as shyt will have an impact on how he deals with women.

This isn't as simple as someone talking about your haircut at the lunch table.
 

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The kid got spit on, cheated on, embarrassed in front of his peer group and embarrassed in front of potentially millions of people to see on Reddit. If that isn’t a cornerstone moment, I don’t know what is. Potential for opportunities doesn’t change how you approach said opportunity. This is basic psychology…people’s experience shape how the move in the future. He’s a young kid…it may not define who he is as a person/man…but it sure as shyt will have an impact on how he deals with women.

This isn't as simple as someone talking about your haircut at the lunch table.

It is basic psychology. Resilence is basic psychology. You cannot acknowledge one without acknowledging the other. People are just assuming this is the worst thing that's ever happened or will happen to him and he won't get over it.
 

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I’ve been cheated on before and found out back in college but it definitely didn’t go like that :damn:

I don’t even know how I would respond to that. The levels of disrespect and embarrassment there are far more than anything I’ve ever had to deal with in life.

I wanna call him a bytch but honestly that level of fukkery is uncharted territory for me.
 

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It is basic psychology. Resilence is basic psychology. You cannot acknowledge one without acknowledging the other. People are just assuming this is the worst thing that's ever happened or will happen to him and he won't get over it.
No one said it was the worst thing that would ever happen to him. But in his young life with probably very limited relationship experience it’s a moment that will change how he views things. Relationships and women.
 

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He might as well concentrate on them books, and be watched for a possible firearm purchase...
 
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