I feel like there's always an element in an IR relationship where the breh or brehette ends up c00ning. It's inevitable. Look, I've had friendships with whites,and grew up around them, and they have tendency of making you feel comfortable and accepted, and all the while occasionally saying and doing problematic shyt. things that make you step back-like damn did she really just say that to me... (even the ones who say they aren't racist and blah blah). They get too comfortable and start slipping. a lot of times it's out of ignorance/not even realizing when they're saying and doing shyt that is offensive/racist. And because of that, the black person is typically in a situation where they end up ignoring it/downplaying it because they're in denial or feel uncomfortable speaking up or where they participating in it themselves-- in the form of bashing the women or male counterpart while putting the white person on a pedestal, or letting the white person get away with it and agreeing. Other times they're angry, or whatnot, but if I've noticed this shyt just in casual situations and in friendships, then there is just no way that in an intimate relationship it's not happening.
And I know to some extent white people do the same. I've had white coworkers and friends talk shyt about "white people" like they aren't white, again to sound "down". IDK. It's weird.
Don't let these nikkas who date white women, and point fingers at black women who date white men, fool you. They be c00ning doing the same goofy shyt too.
